What's the ettiquette for men being in mother's groups? Can men join in? I am thinking of going part time at my job when the baby is born and Susie goes back to work. I like to go out for coffee and stuff, but I don't know a lot of stay at home dad's in my area. Where we work, they have a couple of mother's groups. Can guys join? Or is it some secret place where women bond?? Not looking to take over, but it would be nice for interacting with babies, learning stuff. Obviously there would need to be a bit of discretion re: breastfeeding, etc, but what's the rules??

Any help/advice would be appreciated!

Deano