:hug: Trish, i'm sure he'll come around soon. Jacob was exactly like this when we found out i was pregnant with Lily.
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:hug: Trish, i'm sure he'll come around soon. Jacob was exactly like this when we found out i was pregnant with Lily.
Awww Trish it must be such a relief to at least have Mark know now. Im sure given time it will sink in. I hope you guys can get some time together to enjoy yourselves as a couple and connect in that way so its not just about being parents( as wonderful as that is) Hugs to you.
Jo
Thanks girls.
Brooke, I'm still up hun ;)
We have spent a day talking about things and Mark is slowly coming around. I won't say that he's happy or thrilled, because he isn't. But, atleast he's not screaming, yelling or worse still crying. He tell's me he is in denial, it's easier that way. Hmm, not sure if that will work in 8 months time though. LOL.
Trish, it sounds like he is going to come to terms with it fine. If he is already starting to, I think he will be thrilled before you know it. Like you said, it's good that he isn't yelling/crying. :hug: Hang in there.
Oh that's good he is making progress. I'm sure when the time comes he will be over the moon, at the very least happy to have another son or daughter.
Hi Trish
Sorry I am so slow and wasn't told until today!!!
First of all, congruatlions, and I hope the bleeding eases and you have nothing further to worry about.
Secondly, I remember reading a while back that you said we didn't want to know what Mark said he wanted if you got pg again when it was a hypothetical - so I'm not surprised you were nervous about telling him or that his response doesn't qualify him for husband of the year...
You're a strong woman, hun, and I'm sure you can talk Mark around. Maybe after it's all sunk in and he's had time to get used to the idea he'll be more positive.
If it makes you feel any better, my DP said the other day that the one thing that helped him with our surprise package was my absolute determination that we were having a baby, no negotiation or alternative, and it was up to him to decide what he wanted to do with that. And he definitely came around!!
Jen, thank you so much hun. Mark is much better, thankfully. I really couldn't deal with any negativity at the moment. He is being suprisingly supportive through all of whats going on. Calling me during the day and making sure I rest.
I think when he saw how upset I was he realised just how much this baby means to me. And I think I have responded even more so because I know that this is it. There will be no more babies after this one. If this baby chooses to leave me, then that's it. I sure as hell can't see him saying let's try again !!
Let's just hope it doesn't come to that Trish :hugs:
I just got my results from my HCG test. 23105 - that should make me around 6 weeks Dr said. Still bleeding though so will be doing repeat HCG on Saturday morning.
Sarah, isn't there a list on here somewhere that has HCG levels on it ??
Thanks for the hugs too hun. I need them.
Will hope that all is well Trish, sorry to hear you are having to go through this worry
Here 'tis Trish :):
https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...ead.php?t=1300
Thank you so much Cherie.
Congrats. I hope the DP takes it in well, And lets hope for the best aye.
Congratulations Trish!
I hope all goes well with DP and that you have an easy and wonderful pregnancy!