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  1. #1
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    Jun 2007
    Forster NSW
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    Feeling so anxious!

    It was onyl a few days ago we got our much longed for DH and I are soooooo excited, but I am really scare too. I am so scared I am going to loose this little one, which is completely stupid because I haven't had a mc before. I am desperate to have a winter baby and REALLLLLLY want this little bubba lou to stick. Each day seems to drag, I want to tell everyone, but it is so early in the piece, I'd prefer to only tell close family (parents and siblings only!). The first time round we didn't have too much trouble keeping it to ourselves, but for some strange reason this time is even harder... I honestly thought the 2nd time round you were a lot more cool, calmed and collected about it al??!!!

    Well I could go on and on and on about this, but I'll leave it there. Is anyone going through this or been through time in their 2nd preg and on wards?? Or am I just a worry wart (you can call me a looney if you like! )

    Thanks you reading ladies, to all the lovely pg ladies!

  2. #2
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    Aug 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    298

    Hello!

    Congratulations on your second BFP!

    I am currently preggie with my second and I found it harder to keep this one secret, my first I was warned by everyone 'ooooo don't tell anyone til 12 weeks just in case' so being terrified I didn't tell anyone even work when I would call in sick, they thought I had gastro for a whole month! This time around I blurted it out but I had to, as I work up and down ladders at work and was really strugglling with morning sickness, at home I had to tell everyone as my hubby to be and I are getting married on Tuesday so the wedding dress maker needed to change the skirt to a maternity one lol and as we live with the inlaws until march when the house is finished (and the baby is due) we had to let them know!

    I've had a few m/c scares so I was a little worried that everybody knew and then it may not happen afterall. But now I'm twelve weeks and everybody knows.

    I guess it truly is your decision but it's a hard one! Goodluck with what you choose to do and with the BFP! How exciting!!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Forster NSW
    1,444

    Thank you Linzy... I'm glad to know it's not just me!! GL for the wedding on Tues, how exciting for you!!!

  4. #4
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    Aug 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
    298

    Thankyou! We fly up to Cairns tomorrow, can't wait to feel that sunshine and the sand beneath my feet! And wear a bikini because for the second time I have something to fill it lol :P Goodluck with your bubba

  5. #5
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    Oct 2007
    Perth,WA
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    Pish - Sorry I've only just seen this....and I really hope you aren't feeling as anxious now.

    HUGS

  6. #6
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    May 2007
    1,714

    im feeling exacly the same...! found out 5 days ago and have told so many people when i shouldnt have lol... and find im stressing way more than i did last time
    also had a negative preg test last night so im anxiously waiting for the blood test results...