Thank you everyone,

Your suggestions are terrific

Marydean - Good luck with your Sep Bubba - I love ginger beer so that is a good one!
sconeonamission - yes i totally agree it is so hard & I am afraid i might just blurt
it out - luckily my sis lives in another city so that helps (i think)
joraldyd - Thank you also & best of luck with your Jan bub.

It will be a special time for DH & I - just enjoying this little secret.
Bye for now
AnnaBelle