LTTTCer needing some reassurance....

More huge hugs coming your way lovely lady. And more pretzels of good luck - I will have to un-cross my legs to pee at some stage, but otherwise, everything firmly crossed for you. xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

Hi Honey! Sending lots and lots of positive vibes your way and of course lots and lots of hugs! :crossfingers: :hug:

Just saw this update myturn :hug:
Hang in there, you are not the first to experience this and others have gone on to have happy, healthy babies. I know it must be hard to stay positive, but we are all thinking of you xx

Thankyou lovely ladies..... I feel like I iin a better place today. Was feeling a little dodgey earlier and I am really tired - had naps on the weekend and POAS yesterday. So I have managed tto convince myself that it's bbeen a slow grower all along, and this time it's just the same. I'm going with the theory it was a late implanter.

I think I will be a nervous wreck on Thursday... At least I have nothing fancy booked for work... Just Rome classroom observations which should be pretty easy....


Just another week of being patient.... And while I am not bleeding at all and having very little cramping we can keep with the theory that all is well.... Keep your fingers crossed girls xox

cramping, although pretty nerve-wracking is so completely normal :hug: i reckon that it's a tough pregnancy symptom though!

Thinking of you. Xoxo

So Dr told me this morning that with the results of the two USs that I have an 80% chance if miscarriage. :(

Thats not 100% - but pretty crappy odds.....

Another scan in a week... And well.... That will probably tell us more.... But who knows.... She's been a slow grower all along..., I just feel so sad.

What? How did they give you those odds, do you know? Just from the slower growth? What a terrifying thing to hear, and I really hope that it is NOT the case for you and your little bean is a-okay :hug:

Yeah..... From the slower growth.... 2nd scan showed a heart beat (97bpm) but was only measuring 5 weeks 6 days when I'm actually 7 weeks....

:( :( :(

:hug: my turn, i have been following your story, im sorry you are still in limbo & you have been given those odds of having a miscarriage :(

i have been there & it is awful not knowing & having to wait another week for more news :hug:

i hope bub proves your FS wrong and grows big & strong

oh Myturn I am sorry that you had to have that conversation :hug: I wish your sweet little baby a super week of strength and awesome growing for the next scan xx

I am so sorry that the journey your supposed to be enjoying and loving every moment of, is proving more and more stressful. Where there is a heartbeat there is always hope. I understand :hug:

Sending you some love, even in my current crappy state I still believe in miracles <3 x

Sending you strength to get through this next week. :hug:

I hope you get good news soon.

I'm sorry it wasn't happier news :hug: but thinking of you and hoping for the best.

Oh Hun, that's such a hard place to be. Limbo sucks. Sending your little passenger good-growing vibes and you much much love.

So sorry sweet. Such an emotional time for you and your Dh. Thinking of you and wishing your little one all the best in grow strong for your next scan xxx

I hope your little bubba proves them wrong. Thinking of you my gorgeous friend xoxo

Oh myturn i'm so sorry, that is not the news we were all hoping to hear! Come on little one! Prove them wrong!!
Sending you lots and lots of sticky baby vibes! :hug:

Oh no myturn :hug: I hope they are wrong! Sending lots and lots of sticky vibes xx

Thankyou so much lovely ladies.....


..... I aam not sure how to feel or what to think, but I am feeling sad and wishing the end of next week would get here faster.... I have so much work to start next week and couldn't bear to make the phone calls I should have.... But will get my head around it all over the weekend - try to clean the house as much as I can without straining myself too much, and get back on track -

I will accept prayers and good vibes and anything else you believe in - cause I am begging the universe to spare me any extra pain..... I'm supposed to be a mum... It's what I was put on the earth to do..... I don't want my career or anything else, I just want to be a mum.

:(

Im going to go to sleep and hope things look a bit more bareable in the morning.

More of these :hug: You can't help but feel being a mum is your duty, I know how that feels. Hope you get a good nights sleep. I am still crossing everything for you xx

I'm sorry again to hear your news hun, and I'm sending your little bean all my prayers and good, positive thoughts :hug:. Stay strong and sticky little one :pray::crossfingers::goodluck: All my love and big hugs to you hunni xoxoxoxox

Oh Myturn, I'm so sorry you're going through all this uncertainty right now :hug: It's just not fair, why can't any of this be easy :(
All my thoughts, love and positive growing vibes to you and your little belly-bean xxx

Oh lovey!
I'm praying, hoping and wishing that everything is ok.

Good luck keeping busy- if you ever feel like a LONG drive- come and say hello to me!
I'm always up for PM's too- here if you need me.


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Thanks girls

.... feeling very 'not pregnant' at the moment.... :(

poor DH has to deal with me crying at the drop of a hat, and keeps saying... "it'll be okay...." but he can't really promise that..... cause we just don't know....

I feel so disengaged from little blob now....


...but I just keep having tp ut one foot in front of the other and just get through the week.... thankfully mum and dad will come for dinner tomorrow (mum's birthday), and going over to a friends on tuesday (who knows what's going on) and brother and SiL over for dinner on thursday... so it's only wednesday night I will be sitting at home potentially dwelling... and I can make sure I do some work for my 2nd job that night, so hopefully.... before I know it, the week will be over and I will 'know'.... well... know more anyway.... hopefully it won't be another week of limbo... although something tells me it might be!!!.... I guess each week of limbo brings us closer to 'everything is okay'...... FX ladies... and prayers if that's your kind of thing.....

Thinking of you, your DH and little blob xo

Sending you some growing vibes for little blob xoxo

sending you all the most beautiful, strong growing baby vibes this side of the galaxy :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:

Grow blob grow! Sending you the warmest squishiest hugs

What you feel is totally normal. It's no fun - big hugs.

Each day that passes your sweet little blob is growing. Sending lots of positive vibes to both of you. Hang in there hon.

Hang in there hun :hug:, and grow little blobbie!! xoxoxoxoxox

:hug: :hug: :hug: All FX for you myturn xx

Oh. My. God.


My sister is pregnant. :(

I want to be happy for her..... But I can't. She is due the same time as me.

So if all is well - she steals my thunder.....

If all is not well - she has a baby at the time mine is due..... How will I ever look at the baby without thinking of mine!!!

Cant think that far ahead.... But this is my worst nightmare.....

And I feel like the most horrible terrible cow for being so upset about it.

Oh honey! Bug :hug:

Oh hun, the biggest hug ever :hug: It's such a bitter sweet feeling :( I'm off to bed but I'll talk to you tomorrow xoxoxoxoxo

Myturn :( Massive hugs :hug:

You will face this and get through it with the strength and dignity you have used to get through this journey so far. It won't be easy but you can do it. In the meantime we will all be here, holding you up when you need us.

Take care x

Massive massive hugs. That's awful, I've been there. I was trying for a baby (and had lost 2 already) when I fell pg with my daughter. When I was 4-5w my mum found out she was 5-6 weeks. I ended up losing my girl at 12w- she didn't, and went on to have a girl as well. And when I was pg with my second mc she found out she was pg 2 weeks after and had an abortion.
It's so hard- the best advice I have is take care of yourself right now Hun.
Lots of love and comfort xxx

My sister & my two best friends are all currently pregnant with apparently healthy, 'surprise' babies. The three people who I would usually turn to for comfort during this time, I find myself distancing myself instead because it is just too much for me right now. So I couldn't see this and not post because I can absolutely appreciate how you are feeling.
I wish with all my heart that she is a mere thunder stealer & that in but a few weeks you will be comparing funny preggo anecdotes. Big love to you xx

Oh babe I feel for you and completely understand what you are feeling. I agree completely with what n2l wrote you are a strong woman and matter what happens we are here for you.
Just remember even though it feels like your thunder has been stolen its you and your hubby that are important and you both get to share everything together and that's the most important part xoxo
Thinking of you my gorgeous friend and sending you a hug

Oh sweetie every pregnancy announcement had me feeling like the universe was out to get me. At this time I can only imagine how much worse it feels for you. You will get through this and fingers crossed that beautiful blob you have is healthy and arrives just ahead of your sisters xx