Lack of...

[little_O]

Ok so this is a kind of personal question....

Has anyone experienced a decrease in libido since conceiving??
I have just found first few weeks great!! now i think dh thinks he's dying....poor guy lol!

Is this normal? Will is change again?


Thanks!!

[*Nikki*]

Yep me.... I have absolutely no interest in it at all... Poor dh is going crazy lol
I have heard/read it comes back sometime during pregnancy... I wonder when tho????

[~ Zarava Flutterby ~]

Yep i lost all interest and TBH i never got to that I WANT IT WANT IT stage that everyone talks about, with either of the girls.
It's fairly normal.

[Lolpigs]

Yeah mine comes and goes, has done the whole pregnancy. I never had that stage either. Now it more comes but I'm so big and awkward its difficult Just have to find other ways to make each other happy IYKWIM

[EsJay]

yep me too, i have to say though that even after dd was born it never came back, so im not sure that it went away this time, as it wasnt there before conception this time...
hope we all find our mojo soon

[helle]

Yep i lost all interest and TBH i never got to that I WANT IT WANT IT stage that everyone talks about, with either of the girls.
It's fairly normal.

sames here. mind you toward the end DH loses interest too. At the moment we're lucky to go once maybe twice a week *sigh* I think being so big and awkward and not as flexi makes it less fun for him ><;

[Lolpigs]

sames here. mind you toward the end DH loses interest too. At the moment we're lucky to go once maybe twice a week *sigh* I think being so big and awkward and not as flexi makes it less fun for him ><;

Yeah same here, and for me too.. its just generally akward LOL

[teamalchin]

oh Gosh its a drought in this house as well! We are 9.5 weeks & I think we have had sex 3 times since we made our baby! Mainly because \ - I'm afraid of the sea sickness that may happen LOL - It has killed ALL intrest of my behalf.. I have spoken to many of my mummy friends who assure me come 5 months our poor husbands may not be able to keep up with our "needs"!

[MummaBee]

In the same boat here, everynight go to bed thinking I better actually try and make something happen hit the pillow and convince myself its the worst idea in the world and sleep is a much more sane option

[~TT40~]

we havent done it much, which is my fault but its not that i dont want to, its that i've been way to exhausted or way to nauseous to do it. I lie there in bed thinking will i get motion sickness or not =P

every time I look at DH though his eyes light up and go 'have you reached that stage yet?' (the I WANT IT AND NEED IT stage), I go.. not yet hun. he goes 'oh' and looks a little disapointed. so I hope for his sake I do get that feeling =P I'd say i'd be up for it as long as i stop throwing up =)