Oh no you poor thing..I had to book into the hospital myself I didn't realise yo needed a referel to go to the hospital, although i did have to havea OB to go there...

Can you perhaps ring up and speak to someone else....just pretend you have not yet gone there and find out when you have to book in and how yo go about it...maybe you will get a different response....

I don't believe the hospital can turn you away if you arrive there in labour I may be wrong but that was my understanding maybe someone else can fill you in on that....Also surly there are other maternity hospitals around your area I would be ringing them now and booking in just incase you need an alternative to the first hospital you mentioned...regarding your dr I would like to know why they don't take referrels form your dr has she done something in the past?????

Also don't blame yourself this in no way is your fault your dr should have known when you should book into the hospital..I really hope this works out for you..wishing you all the best