Hi Guys,

I've got my first doctors appointment tomorrow at 2.20pm and im trying to think of all the things i want to ask.
Also, i have a problem that i haven't found a solution to yet

anyway, these are the questions i have so far, if i've forgotten some, please feel free to add them, i dont want to forget anything!

1. Do i have to have a c-section because of my last two?
2. If i do, can i labor naturally and see how it goes?
3. My morning sickness has been really bad, should i be worried about the nutrients the bub might not be getting?
4. If I have a c-section, can bub go straight on my chest, barring no problems?
5. If i have to have a c-section, how long do i have to stay in bed? (last time they made me stay in bed for 4 days and it nearly killed me, almost literally)
6. How long do i have to stay in hospital?
7. when do i have my ultrasounds?
8. how long can i stay at home when labor starts?
9. How often do i have to see the doctor?
10. I cant afford an OB, what do i do?

This last one is a real concern of mine because at the moment we are living on a shoestring. we're reduced to eating the last of whats in the pantry due to some very big bills coming in and my work hours being cut back. i've given up costly stuff, including pay tv, gone to recharge for my mobile, my land line is on incoming calls only and all my utilites are on payment plans. im also letting my rego slide because we have another car, and im walking up the street (7 km round trip) rather than driving the car. i've also put the dogs and horse onto cheaper foods and am trying to get my horse moved to a friends place for a few weeks to help save money.
i am on a centrelink payment, am only working a maximum of 10 hours a week (due to staff cutbacks and quiet time of year) and my OH has been reduced to 14 hours a fortnight. he's currently looking for extra work, but we need money for that too.
can i do without seeing my OB for a while? i'm 8 weeks pregnant as of monday.

sorry to dump this on you guys, im just so depressed and wish i could stop crying, its getting very messy lol

oh, and i'm putting my car on ebay this weekend after i tidy it up to see if i can get some extra cash that way.

any questions i've forgotten? any tips on money saving ideas?

hope to hear from someone soon

Jenna