very upset...but is there any hope?

**Eenee** · February 9th, 2010, 02:55 PM

Had spotting last night but by morning had stopped. However had scheduled appt with Dr this morning anyway. Anyways he sent me off for ultrasound- and it wasn't good instead of measuring 8weeks I only measured 5weeks4days- I was devastated. Anyways the u/s lady seen a flicker, so did I but she said if it was the heartbeat it was too slow. Also the yolk sac was way too big nearly taking up the whole space of the gestational sac and was way to big compared to the fetal pole(hate that word, it's a baby not a pole!), she said it's like the yolk sac has kept growing but the baby has not. And as for the spotting- she said that the gestational sac has come away a tiny bit from the uterus and there is a haemorrhage there.

So am I kidding myself holding some hope unto the fact that baby might be just slower then others, or do I have to face facts and come to terms that this is going to end in another miscarriage?

**LionsandBears** · February 9th, 2010, 03:03 PM

I'm so sorry em, it doesn't sound positive. Can you get a 2nd opinion?

***LittleMissSummer*** · February 9th, 2010, 03:07 PM

Oh hunni, im so sorry

**onthefly** · February 9th, 2010, 03:07 PM

**Cassius2** · February 9th, 2010, 03:09 PM

i really dont know em...for me, where there's life there's hope, but in all honesty it does seem that the bubba is quite behind for dates.

what have they said to you? will you do another repeat scan or BTs?

that that bubba keeps growing big and strong xx

barney · February 9th, 2010, 07:46 PM

oh em i really dont know either hun but know were here holding your hand i truely hope all works out for you hunny

**Loula** · February 9th, 2010, 07:49 PM

so sorry

**ezymay** · February 9th, 2010, 07:54 PM

Em I'm not sure..hopefully someone can give you some advice I can just offer a hug

**CharlieBrownGirl** · February 9th, 2010, 08:21 PM

Em,

Unfortunately I can't offer any advice... all I can do is be here for you. I

that your baby is strong and healthy.

**Ree*Ree** · February 9th, 2010, 10:55 PM

so sorry ur going thru this em, I hope there is a happily ever after for u very very soon xoxo

**Nai** · February 10th, 2010, 04:18 AM

I'm so sorry you are going through this.

**minimatron** · February 10th, 2010, 06:28 AM

em hun, I am so sorry to hear this. Thinking of you sweetie

**Eenee** · February 10th, 2010, 07:40 AM

thanks everyone for all your hugs and support.

Just rang Dr's clincic, the lady was so rude- like have a bit of tact and niceness it aint that hard! I got of the phone crying and feeling sick to my stomach- it's not like I need to be treated rudely at this time. Anyway I asked if the Dr has seen my ultrasound report yet- she checked and said I will have to get the dr to ring you for this one. So now I wait until I get the cal I guess.
I tried to stay in bed, hoping to stay there all day to waste my birthday away but nope i just toss and turn. so figured I'd just get up and pace the house.

I just don't get it, the spotting has stopped...my goodness I want to give every other person who has ever had to go thru this a big hug because it's bloody tough!

**foreva*your*mummy** · February 10th, 2010, 07:46 AM

fingers crossed, I hope the news is positive xo

**fourthontheway** · February 10th, 2010, 07:48 AM

Love to you xxx There's no reason for staff to be rude and insensitive, and you'd think that working in a dr's office they're be ESPECIALLY nice ... and then they're not.