Thanks for the replies ladies! I am sure it will work out ok. I am so excited about my BFP at the moment and not too concerned about the dress. It is being made to my size in another state at the moment and they just send it to you a few weeks before the wedding. I might email the lady and see if she has made the bodice part yet. It is pretty floaty, but fitted from about my belly button up. Really interesting to hear how much it varies with when everyone starts to show.