thread: Pregnant with IUD in place. Urgent advice/info needed!

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Grafton
    208

    Exclamation Pregnant with IUD in place. Urgent advice/info needed!

    Not sure if this is posted in the right spot....
    I've just gotten off the phone to my sister in Canada and she is really stressed because last week she found out that she is 8weeks pregnant but she still has a copper IUD in place. She had an ultrasound and apparently the IUD is lodged in her uterus and can't be removed. The Dr said that the IUD has to be removed for the sake of her own health but in doing so the removal would probably cause a miscarriage. My sis got another opinion and the second Dr said that it would be ok to leave the IUD in place and continue with the pregnancy but the chance of having a miscarriage anyway from the IUD being left there is greater than 50% and there's a possibility she could miscarry in the second trimester.
    So my sister is facing a really hard decision, whether to continue with the pregnancy and risk late miscarriage and complications or have a termination and remove the IUD. She has to make her mind up by Saturday. The problem is that there doesn't seem to be anyone she can talk to in Canada (she's an aussie citizen, she's just there travelling) and the midical advice she's been given is quite limited. I told her to see an OB (the two Dr's she saw were GPs) but since she isn't canadian the medical expenses for specialist appointments are quite high and she doesn't have much money.
    I'm really sad because when i spoke to her today she said she was leaning towards having a termination because she's scared of losing the bub down the track. I think she's feeling pressured to go this way because so far the advice she's been given is that the pregnacy will end in miscarriage anyway. She is feeling really lost becuase she and her boyfriend would really like to keep the baby but she's not sure whether to risk the pregnancy and have to go through a miscarriage or just terminate now. If she did keep the bub she'd come back to Aus in the next few weeks and she'd have better care here where her pregnancy could be monitored more closely.
    She asked me to research it for her so I've been googling like mad trying to find some info for her becuase i want her to have all the facts before she makes a decision. I'd like to hear from anyone who's been in a similar position or knows someone who's been pregnant with an IUD. Any info/websites you may know of would be really helpful. Does anyone know the chances of having the IUD removed and the pregnancy still being viable? She has a copper IUD not a hormone one so there's no risk of birth defects.
    thanks

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2005
    Cherry Tree Lane
    1,108

    goodness- your poor sis she must be devasted)
    i have no advice but prehaps you could call you own ob on her behalf? will start googling though/

  3. #3
    Registered User

    May 2008
    Sydney
    698

    Does your sister have travel insurance? Where in Canada is she? I may be able to help with some contacts in Canada depending on where she is.

  4. #4
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    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    I know of people who have continued with pregnancy and given birth to a term healthy baby.

    good luck to her what a horrible position to be in.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Grafton
    208

    Hi Jaxi, She is currently living in Whistler (not sure if i spelt that right). She has travel insurance, its with One Cover i think but i don't think it covers this kind of thing....
    Any help would be very very much appreciated

  6. #6
    Registered User

    May 2008
    Sydney
    698

    I'll put my feelers out. I'd be able to find people in Vancouver. Not so sure about Whistler but will see who/what I can find overnight (with the time zone difference). I'll PM you with any details I'm able to find.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    1

    Help Help

    I am 20 years old and have a copper IUD too, and just found out that I am 8 weeks pregnant.... what decision did your sister go with....? I'm on the same boat right now and needs some answer! My ob said i should just leave it in...?

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Grafton
    208

    I am 20 years old and have a copper IUD too, and just found out that I am 8 weeks pregnant.... what decision did your sister go with....? I'm on the same boat right now and needs some answer! My ob said i should just leave it in...?
    Hi mh637, i'm so sorry you're going through this My sis found it very very hard to make a decision but in the end she decided to end the pregnancy. Her decision was swayed alot by the fact that she's travelling and so she didn't have proper access to specialists etc and was scared to continue with a high risk pregnancy in a different country. She saw two doctors and one said to terminate the pregnancy and the other encouraged her to keep the IUD in and continue with the pregnancy. I know the decision to terminate tore her apart but the decision was her's and she weighed up the risks and decided that the risk was too big to take with her current lifestyle.
    If you don't mind me asking, is the IUD imbedded? Can you still feel the string? My sisters IUD was imbedded and the string couldn't be felt so the doctors said that the IUD couldn't be removed without removing the baby as well and if she kept it in and had the bub two things would happen. 1 the bub would be fine and the IUD would probably come out with the placenter at delivery or 2 she would suffer a late miscarriage halfway through the pregnancy.. i know this scared her a lot as the thought of a late miscarriage really upset her.

    I really feel for you as i understand that this is such a horrible thing to have to go through, personaly i think if it happened to me i would continue with the pregnancy but then i have a wonderful hubby, stable income to pay for specialist care etc, good medical care etc luxuries my sister didn't have. If i was overseas and in her position i honestly don't know what i would have done.

    Have you talked to your doctor about your options and all the risks involved?
    Thinking of you

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Canning Vale, Perth
    1,318

    Not that this really helps but im the product of my mum having an IUD, getting pregnant, got it removed (was told either remove it and maybe miscarry or risk other complications) and here i am