Okay, so pretend for a moment that you have issues with your MIL - you dont see each other that often and she kinda drives you nuts most of the time and never makes the effort to contact or see her only son blah blah blah


Most people have their baby showers around the 7 months mark? Correct? roughly 8 weeks out? Well thats when I decided I want to do mine anyway. Which for us falls in Feb....
Late Feb/Early March is always such a horrible time of year for us as its so busy with birthdays and a music festival that alot of my friends go to.

So anyway as it turns out, the only 2 dates I could do it, would be Sat 12th Feb or Sat 15th Mar (I could change to a Sunday but dont really want to). Im thinking the 12th Feb because 15th March is just too close to my due date for my liking.

So anyway, we've just found out that MIL is going overseas for the first 3 weeks in Feb.....so that means she wont be here for our babyshower. My first thought is "Peeved off" because this now means I have to change the day and the dates around to suit her so that she can come and uummm Hello!! Its her only Son's first child and she didnt think that there would be a baby shower on around that time?? And to think about checking first??

She did the same thing with my Hens and almost missed it cos she was overseas.

So I'm wondering is it going to be completely b*tchy of me to say "too bad Sorry, we cant change it??"
Or should I try and be accommodating and change the date to something that doesnt suit me?

What would you do?