Hi, all. Well, have hit 12 weeks and feeling better about telling more people. I am am bit cautious though...

My godmother had a m/c at 12 weeks in oct last year. I don't want to upset her by telling her, but in the same respect I don't want to offend her by not telling her soon (we don't see each other often, but chat a lot and are very close, not telling her has been hard...). This is usually something I would share with her as soon as I found out, but didn't as it was very close to when she had her m/c, and she was pretty upset, but has since announced she will be TTC again (very unexpected as this one was a whoopsy! But she is a great mum, has 4 already!) .

I don't really know what's the right thing to do... I so want to tell her, but don't want to upset her, as 12 weeks was when she lost hers... Just not sure what to do? What does everyone here think?