I know that I already posted here recently but I have a question.

I called my OB about my first appointment today and asked about my first sonogram. She said that they will not give me one until Im PAST 20 weeks. Is this normal?

I know Im moody and hormonal but as soon as I got off the phone I broke down crying. I mean Im a nurse but all my OB is in theory, and I learned something COMPLETELY different from what she was telling me.

I just feel frustrated, and I asked if there was any way possible I could get one sooner, we would like to see the heartbeat, hear the heartbeat and know the sex. She LAUGHED at me and said why do you want sonogram?

I told her because I like to SEE whats going on. I just feel really frustrated right now, and being in Korea I have NO options. =( Is this normal, am I just over reacting?