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Caro, i would like another because our kids are such a joy to have and i have time to make another (just) and i dont want to miss out, Lol or regret not going again. I adore our kids. They are both good kids and i enjoy being there mum and im greatfull that i have them.
We went through the same indecision with #2 but not this bad. I probably am hesitant because of DH but thats only because i dont want him to agree to something he isnt comfortable with either.
I have 3 children-3yrs, 18months and 4 months. I find it VERY hard most days, as DH works a lot, and im new to melbourne, but i love my children, the only think i regret is having them so close together (20 months between #1 and 2, and 14 months between #2 and 3) It would have been nice to have them a little further apart and be able to enjoy them a bit. But we were lucky we already we hard a car that would accomodate the 3 carseats, and we moved the boys into a room together. We already had all the furniture we needed. I thjink you have already decided what you want... but you need to tell people "yes, im having a third", dont let people tell you you want it. Good luck!!
Don't regret a second of any minute of any day.
Best of luck,
Debbie
Funny, I have noticed a couple others of you felt the same as I did after having #2 (#4 if you count my twins). As soon as Chloe was born I just knew I wanted another one. When I had my 6 week check up my GP was quite shocked that I was already planning another one and asking the best time to try. She said she hardly ever had women saying they were planning more at their 6 week check! We waited 9 months and I fell pregnant first time trying. (Wish I could do the same now!!!).
Best wishes again,
Debbie
Thanks Simone, the age gap between mine is DD and DS are 3yrs 9mths apart which is a great gap i think, for me anyway. But if we fell now the gap between DS and NB would be closer. We too have a car that will accommodate 3 chairs and we have all the furniture, even clothes for both sex so couldnt be more simpler really now i come to think about it. The bedrooms, well one would have to share as we are only building 2 kids rooms in the shed, there is room to add another actually so thats not a prob either.
Yeah i do think ive made the decision im just to scared to go with it. I still find it interesting to hear other peoples opinions.
Maybe i should just do Fionas suggestion and not think so hard of when i 'O', which is hard cause i get the pain (like now) of when i do 'O'. So that wont work either. Lol.:rolleyes: