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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
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    Really sad

    I'm just over 38 weeks pregnant with our 1st (and due to my age, probably only) assisted conception baby. We've been getting excited about his arrival and looking forward to sharing this special time with family and friends but sadly my Mum passed away this morning after a failed operation. I'm so sad at losing my Mum but it's even harder because she didn't get to meet our baby and he will never know her. She was a wonderful mother of six and grandmother of eleven and I wish she was still here.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    Central Coast NSW
    592

    I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother and such a shock with the failed operation. Your mum must have loved thinking about her new grand baby even if he was still on the inside - and I hope that the birth of your baby brings you much joy and hopefully a reminder of your mum in something inherited that will make you smile thinking of her

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Feb 2009
    In the poor house...
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    I am so terribly sorry for your loss

    Take care

    xoxo

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    melb
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    Oh so very sad, my thoughts are with you and your family at this hard time.

    Your mum will be your babys special guardian angel watching from above.

    xoxo

  5. #5
    Registered User

    May 2006
    Igglepiggle Land
    2,742

    OMG, I have a tear in my reading that..words cannot express my deepest sympathies for you at this horrible time....

    Hugs hunny...xx

  6. #6
    Registered User

    May 2008
    ...where jumping on the bed is mandatory!
    2,225

    Im so sorrry to read about your loss. Big hugs to you. I can relate in a small way as my mother in law passed away a few months ago, everything DD does i wish she was here to see!! But my DH has a very possitive outlook now and will always tell me that she is there watching DD 24/7. And its a nice thought, like a gardian angel. I know its not the same, but she will always be on your shoulder guiding you and your LO!!

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    In a cloud of madness.
    4,053

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine how your feeling.
    Sending you and all your family loads of

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Logan
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    I am so sorry

  9. #9
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber & MPM

    Feb 2007
    Melbourne
    5,462

    I am so sorry for the loss of your mum .

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    in the eye of a toddler tornado
    2,450

    I'm so sorry to hear about your mum..... very very sad that she won't get to meet your little man. She'll be watching over you.

  11. #11
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2006
    Queensland
    2,039

    I am so sorry for your loss, I believe they will meet one day. Just praying that you can find peace at this time. I am so sorry

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    Gippsland Vic
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    Wishing you the very best of luck it will be difficult inthe weeks ahead try and look after yourself and baby and know your mum is looking out for you. Remember to talk and maybe some professional counselling.
    xxxx Pam.

  13. #13
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    Oct 2006
    Perth
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    I'm so sorry for your loss Thinking of you and your family. I'm sure your mum will be watching over you and your baby feeling very proud.

  14. #14
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Perth
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    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    by the lake .....
    1,047

    A Big hug for you Alipetrina - I know how you feel my mum died 6 years ago and never got to meet any of her grandchildren, see us married etc and it really makes you sad when you think about all that they have missed. She will be with you and watching over you!

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Nov 2007
    Off with the fairies.
    4,370

    I'm so so sorry.
    Thinking of you and your family.

    xox

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Jun 2007
    Forster NSW
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    I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I couldn't imagine what it is like to loose someone so close to you. My heart goes out to you and your family.

    I never got to meet my Dad's mum as she passed before I was born, but I feel as though I knew her. People say I talk about her as if I knew her and that is only because both of my parents told me tons of stories about her, the good and the bad, and kept her spirit alive throughout all of these years. You can do that too. Share photos and stories and always be open and completely honest about every aspect of your beloved mum. When the times comes, tell the little just how it felt to loose her and the feeling you had about him not being able to meet her. Then I believe he too will feel as though he knew her and love her just as much as you do.

    thinking of you. Be kind on yourself, healing takes time.

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Ouiinslano
    5,303

    That is very sad.

    I'm sure you'll have lots of stories and pictures to share with your little one, so that they know there's someone special keeping an eye out for them from above.

    And I bet your mum went peacefully, knowing the joy you would very soon be experiencing.

    All the best for getting through this. If you can get to a counsellor I think it would be a great idea.

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