To try and cut a long story short I asked husband for the 1000th time lastnight to bring in a new telephone as ours was cutting out all the time. He agreed he would.
When he comes in I see he doesnt have it, and at that instance the phone conversation I am having with a friend once again drops out because the battery goes.
So being me, being pregnant , being tired I yell at him. He says he had a bad day at work and was too busy, its only 5:30 so I know he left work in time to reach the shops and get a phone so I am angryyyyy. I yelled for about 3 min's because then my mobile rang to resume the conversation I was having with my friend.
He doesnt speak to me for the rest of the night, I threw up 2 times, he didnt care,watched me struggle to clean up my own vomit and then didnt even offer to make me dinner (which he does all cooking at the moment) so then he watches me struggle to make myself something to eat, vomiting in between from the smells.
He didnt even flinch. Eventually I say "do you think what your doing is justified over a small argument" ?
He says how he had a really bad day to come in to me yelling and so on and so on..
I continued to explain to him while he might have had a bad day, I have had a bad 6 weeks of vomiting and I can't go home at the end of the day. He of course didnt care.
How can I make him see that 1: I am pregnant and emotional and 2: that not speaking to me over a 3 min argument is ridiculous.
Every morning he says goodbye to me before leaving for work and he rubs my belly and kisses the baby.
this morning he just walked out the door.
which is very very hurtful.
It really wouldnt matter if I wasnt pregnant I still think it is unjustified over a 3 min argument. But he sat there watching me vomit, struggle to cook and clean up all because I yelled at him for not bringing in a telephone.
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