In my experience, and from what I have casually noticed on here over the years, if you go in waving about fistfuls of printed articles, you are going to look like someone who has spent half the night googling

and more than likely you will be dismissed and treated like a moron (judging by the disdainful remarks some women get when they try to challenge their Ob's on a particular theory)
Definitely research on this and the chances of a sucessful VBAC even with a large baby etc and just go in there with the confidence to say, 'thanks, I will have the scan but at this early stage I would like to just see how things go as I am fully committed to a VBAC and I want every chance of getting that. If there is a medical reason why my baby needs to be born via c/s, we will discuss it if and when that moment arrives." You need the strength of your convictions to give you that confidence, so researching it is really helpful in that respect but they do seem to respect confidence to accept what they are saying but at the same time still having your choices for birth respected if you do it that way as opposed to presenting them with articles off the net. And FWIW, growth scans are scary things, and mostly used to put the fear of god into you from either a baby too big to birth

or a baby too small too birth that needs to come out via c/s or early induction, much the same as what they usually want to do with large baby

either way it's a game you rarely win without putting up a good fight kwim? I shudder at the thought of how big they would have estimated my last baby, who was over 10lb and 59cm lng ROFL.
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