I really don't like "What to expect" - it's so preachy!

I don't have to decide yet, and it's not set in stone, but that's why I'm doing all the research now. The reason I wasn't considering TENS is it says you need to hire and practise before hand, and I guess that put me off. A friend recommended it and said it was great, though.

Thanks again for all your input, the varied advice and stories help me to think about what I really want, and DH is completely supportive whatever I decide, to the point that if I'm not making myself clear he will insist they listen to me, lol!