Kate, I ate peanuts when I was pg with Olivia and with Charlie as I was never told not to, and they are both fine with peanuts and have no food allergies. For some reason I went off them when I was pg with Lexie.....so I never ate them when I was pg with her....
Ask your Dr, but you are right, there is conflicting info out there. Personally, for me, I think in moderation is OK.......

