Just want to get some feedback regarding the affects of alcohol on a baby in the first few weeks prior to and after conception.

DH and i have only just decided to begin TTC #2 soon so i have been drinking quite a bit of this delish white wine that my DH got....he got a great deal on a few boxes as we are big wine drinkers.

The plan was to begin detoxing this month once i got AF so to rid my body of all that yuck before TTC. I thought that AF arrived yesterday - but today there's nothing...and usually by day 2 AF is very heavy. I really don't think i could be preg as we r very careful...but u never know???

I actually conceived dd around Christmas/new yr when there was a great deal of social drinking happening - as we were not expecting to fall preg straight off - and she turned out absolutely fine.... but this time around i just didn't want to have that stress.

Again i'm confident that i'm not preg but am still interested in knowing the affects alcohol may or may not have in the early weeks.