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  1. #1
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    Mar 2008
    In my own twisted little universe
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    Poor DF .... finding it hard to DTD....

    Is anyone else finding it physically difficult to DTD as you are getting further along in your pg??

    DF is really understanding as he realises midweek he's got nooooooo chance as I am exhausted but I just feel so ungainly at the moment I really can't be bothered doing it at all.

    The only position thats working for us now is doggy and it has never done much for me so once again not much incentive there either.

    and it doesn't help that I am painfully aware of the weird saddle bag lumps and bingo arms that have appeared too

    is anyone else experiencing this or is it just me?

  2. #2

    May 2008
    Melbourne, Vic
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    Yeah - hi - me over here finding it hard as well!

    Everything gets uncomfy. During the week I'm like you too. Thankfully DH has been just as tired recently so I haven't felt so bad wanting to go to sleep...

    And like you I'm conscious of my lumpy bits...

    But DH woke me up in the middle of the night last night and said we needed to DTD right now

    He was sleep talking but it struck me that I think I need to be more attentive... If he is sleep talking about it... I'd better get onto my wifely duties...

  3. #3
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    Mar 2008
    In my own twisted little universe
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    OP -
    DF got back into bed with me this morning when I was half asleep and he was already dressed for work and he tried subliminal messaging ...LOL
    So tonight I think I am going to have to pep myself up and take care of him

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    Nov 2006
    Somewhere Over The Rainbow
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    Hey Dee,

    Yep.... I started a thread too, have a look through....

    https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...nancy-tmi.html

    Also thre was a DVD which I got hold of, NOT what I was expecting, but hey if you want some tips look for "Nina Hartley's Guide to Sex During Pregnancy".......

    be warned, my jaw hit the floor when I realised how graphic it was, but VERY informative......

  5. #5
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    Mar 2008
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    Kitten ....

    thanks love!!! I need all the help I can get I'll have a proper read of your thread when I get home.
    When you say graphic are we talking love of sex graphic or debbie does dallas???

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    Nov 2006
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    ummmnnnn hee hee DF will probably love it, put it that way.....PM me if you want a bit more info LOL!!!

  7. #7
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    Aug 2008
    adelaide
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    hi all

    doubledee i'm not as far as you but who can be bothered during the week with work, cooking, house work - i mean please!

    i've also been 'trying' to make more of an effort for DP - he commented one day that before i got UTD it was every day - sometimes more and now nothing. i felt bad like i'd got what i wanted even though it was what we both wanted LOL.

    oceanprincess i laughed so loud when i read your OH was sleep talking about DTD. if that was me i'd be like 'sure you were asleep' LOL