I loved UTD the first time I read it, when I thought I might be starting a family not too far down the line (in 2003...no baby till 2006!). Then I read it again when I was pg the first time and hated it. It didn't tell me what I wanted to know by then - how to achieve waterbirth, how HypnoBirthing worked, how to just be undisturbed in labour etc. And this is considering I didn't know anyone who'd done these things - I just got it into my head that I wanted to do these things and needed to know how to do it