As for the husband wanting pictures - I really don't think that is such a bad reason when you think about it. We get to feel the baby, experience it in full. They get a kick every so often and see a growing belly - they have no other connection or attachment to the baby and I can totally understand a partner wanting the pictures - it is a more tangible thing to get attached to - and from what I understand, that is a fairly normal male way of thinking. I know my husband felt much better and more connected after seeing the ultrasounds (and if he couldn't be there for the scan in person, the pictures are vital.) Just something to think about before we judge how silly or foolish a reason it is for having an ultrasound.
Totally agree with this statement!! Very good point!