So DF and i are both h or ny as hell and are really missing the intimacy but its just not... well, comfortable...... for either of us....
Have any of you managed to come up with anything that worked other than
Woman on top
Spooning (Man behind woman, rear entry)
Hands and Knees
Side lying, knee pulled up
??
- I'm not a big fan of being on top for the entire time..... i dont orgasm this way
- Spooning.... between my big butt and DF's "averaged" sized fella doesnt really work
- rear entry .... usually very enjoyable but my tummy muscles just dont like it ATM.... had to stop last time, just felt wrong
- side lying..... kinda same as spooning.
Plus the spooning and side lying and really working as DF isnt getting as hard as he usually would as he has a fear of hurting the baby.
Any ideas? When i was pregnant with DD (8 years ago!!) i was more than happy to satisfy myself as i didnt want to be doing anything with the X, but i love this man and miss our intimacy sooooo much!!!
When I was HUGE with Izzy I would pile up about a billion pillows and kind of half sit and half lie back (but still upright IYKWIM) and that worked as there was space between our bellies.
That's all I can think of for now!
Sitting on the lounge or side of the bed, on the edge, while DH kneels in front of you, and you can lean back a bit works well. Or he can stand and you can lie on your back, right on the edge too. All depend on height!!
I find leaning over the bench or back of the lounge good too.
I'll be back when I think of more, cant remember them all now!!
you lay on your back and he lies on his side - but your butt is against his... doodle.. and your legs are over his back and upper thighs.. does that make sense? So if anyone walked in the room, they would see you guys trying to make the shape of a mm..well I guess its sorta like two bookends pushed together??? takes up a lot of room on the bed so I hope you have at least a queen size bed!!! lol
Works well though - more penetration than missionary (if you can angle it the right way) but not as much as doggy..
your partner sits on a sturdy chair or on the side of the bed and you sit astride him, either facing him or facing the other way. You have control of the depth of penetration, while his arms are free to caress you. I found the side of the bed worked well for us...
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