I've just seen some customers at work, and let them know about bubs as i'll be on leave for ages. I'd previously told his wife, but wasn't sure about him so mentioned it again. Then it turns out they're on their way to visit the grave of their first daughter, who died 4 years ago. I could have cried, I felt so stupid and just didn't know what to say. What can I say? It's not like I can give a hug or anything. I just feel horrible

I also worry I'm becoming *that* pregnant woman. You know when you're ttc, or thinking about it, suddenly their are babies, pregnant women and announcements everywhere? It happened to me all the time. Now I'm worried I'm doing the same thing.

DH's best mate told us his wife got a bit depressed when we announced our pregnancy, even though they're apparently not trying yet. I sent off my leave forms to the manager's assistant at work, and she was so wistful about it all. I have a feeling the branch manager here is the same.

I'm mindful about keeping baby stuff to a minimum, I don't bombard Facebook with it, I'm not constantly talking about it, and still I feel like it's causing people pain. It's just as hard on this side of the fence as it was on the other!

Sent from my HTC Desire using Tapatalk