Hi guys!! My name is Rebecca. This is the first time I have ever posted with you guys but I hope it will definately not be the last!! I am 14 and a half weeks pregnant, and I have a 15 and a half month old son at home as well. He is an angel! Anyway, he was born naturally (with a vaccuum extraction) and because of this, I had a third degree tear!! I just had my Dr appointment today, and they have reccommended I have a caesarean! I do not have any idea what to do! I really, really wanted to go natural again, but do not know if it is worth the risk. they said if I tear again, it could cause really bad damage, but then on the other hand, I may not tear at all! I am so confused!! Does anyone have any advice??