I never had a baby shower first time around either so a friend organised mine for DS2, it was just a morning tea get together...so light food & tea/coffee, punch and a few games.

Things I thought were great, since it was for bubs #2 she put on the invite pls bring something for the Mum to be as bubs already has so much. It was awesome, got a facial voucher, foot massage voucher, hand cream, body cream etc & so on FANTASTIC!!!!!!! There were also enough small gifts so even if you didn't win any of the games you got to take a gift when you left & everyone got a lolly bag.....that was lollies put in one of those nappy bags you use for stinky poopy nappies, that was my DH idea, a nice touch.