I'm not sure what to do. I do want a baby shower... my mum and sisters are dying to throw one... but I feel uncomfortable about it. I hate being invited to events where there's all these people that don't know each other. And the mum/bride/bday girl... or whoever is so busy doing the rounds, entertaining everybody, you barely get to say 5 words to her.
I have 3 groups. My relatives, friends, workmates.

My friends are party girls. They are all single, maybe a tiny bit rough, get wasted every weekend, and to be honest, I dont think they can function without a few drinks first. (which my mother would NOT allow in her house!)
I think they'd hate it.

I could just have a baby shower with my relatives, but there might only be about 10 or 11 people.... and they might think i'm a loser with no mates if it's just them! How embarassing.

Do i bother having one????