Wow!!! When I posted my msg last nite I didnt expect to see so many replies this morning! Thank you all for ur suggestions. By the way I forgot to mention that my 3yr old is a girl (silly me!)
We are going to Murdoch hosp & they clearly have a 'no kids' policy there! But contacting our church may be a gud idea - thanx for that Shannon. I have joined playgroups etc but I don't think I am going to find someone I can totally trust with my precious little girl. I just want to be able to go into labour with total peace of mind. I can't say I wud leave hubby to look after our 3yr old cos I need him - just can't do the whole pushing thing without him to support me!
Both of us have our families overseas & don't want to have to deal with making others feel comfortable etc during this time, u know how it is. We'd rather they came to visit at a less stressful time.
I will get in touch with u sonya, though I'm not too sure how my little one will get along with a boy her age - willing to give it a shot though!!!
Ta again everyone