Thank you so much for all your replies.

It has actually put my mind at ease that Dp and I are not doing the classes at the hospital. I actually asked my midwife about them and she said they were a bit of a waste and for her to say that to me I sort of thought that I wouldn't be missing much.

I feel like I learn so much more from everyone at BB.

I do like the tip about asking for 5 min to think about something and how to push.

I already know how to change nappies and hold a newborn. And I relly dont think DP needs to see a birth video from the 18th century! If anything I can show him one on You Tube. I am actually going to get him to have a chat to a mate of his whose wife just had a baby as i think he will get more out of speaking to someone who has been through it and knows how to be supportive.

Cass- thanks for the PM. I think the hypnobirthing will be a much better option for me and DP.

Question- what is the difference between hypnobirthing and calmbirthing? They sound similar.

Thanks again for all your honest opinions.