DD took a long time to arrive and I wasn't sure my head or heart could cope with potentially going back into TTC mode if it was going to be hard work again.
When DD was a year old I went back to work then after a few months I thought maybe I could try again!
I really was loving being a mum and juggling work! Then we decided to just see what happens and like Andie were blessed quickly with another pregnancy. DS is 2.5 years younger than DD and I think it's a nice gap. It is hard work at the beginning but I think adjusting at any age gap would be.
It's hard to plan it when you aren't sure how long it might take you to conceive this time.
Good luck with whatever you decide and enjoy your little one now xx