Possums - my scan is tomorrow AM - and i'll be, at best, 6w2d - my clinic were more than happy with that....

Nixon - thanks for the comments hun - my bro and SIL have been with us for everything through this journey so i thought they'd be more understanding. they have been my primary support with DH working away... anyone else, i'd understand them not getting it, but this pair should! ah well, i still love 'em!