Sarah I have everything crossed for you the brown discharge is nothing to worry about. The only time I have ever had bleeding of any description except my ectopic was this pregnancy but I was only 4 weeks and it was red. I guess it was a form of implant bleeding. Even my 4 other m/c I have not bleed until well after I have found out the pregnancy is not progressing. I guess I am just not a bleeder. Are you on asprin?

Bec as for controlling the anxiety I did not do a very good job of that. I would go from being determined to stay positive and telling myself the outcome is completely out of my control to convincing myself it was all over. Even now after a reassuring scan at 12weeks I keeping having this fear that this is to good to be true and just waiting for something adverse to happen. If it were to I am sure I would tell myself I knew it was going to happen all along. I definitely prepared myself for the worst early on. For my 1st scan I had so much ovary pain I even packed my bags and put it in the car expecting to be going to hospital to have my remaining tube removed due to another ectopic. Admittedly I did have really bad ovary pain but it was the cysts causing that after all. I got a ticker and announced the pregnancy something I have never done even with my pregnancy that resulted in my DD. But I still can't buy any maternity clothes, bigger bras or things for the baby. I have just started looking but can't bring myself to buy anything yet. It really is a kind of torture we do to ourself and does add to the past grief that a lot of the enjoyment of a new pregnancy is overshadowed by fear and anxiety.