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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
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    So worried and upset

    Hi everyone...I just found out my HCG levels have not risen much in the last week. My IVF nurse is very worried and concerned and is preparing me for the fact I might miscarry soon. I am shattered. I can't bear the thought of losing our little one. I see my OB this afternoon and will probably have another scan. We just saw the heartbeat on Friday and felt so elated. Now this. My nurse said sometimes "hiccups" can occur, but she advised me of her concnern and worry.
    It's going to be an awful time waiting until we know what's happening. I just feel so helpless and so sad and worried.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    Country Victoria
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    awww hun! huge hugs!!! dont expect the worse hun, have some hope. I have everything crossed for you xoxoxo

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    thanks...I our little one is strong and hangs on

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Perth
    296

    Hang in there Possums, I am sending you such a great big hug to get you through.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Brisbane
    118

    Hey there possums! congradulations... and i kno its hard but unfortunetly the more you stress the worse it is for your body.. plus there is a chance that your hormone levels could rise right?

    maybe look into what u can do to assist your hormones to rise.. i think i read that someone had posted last week that eating helps because it gives u nutrients and energy.. try relaxation methods...

    good luck and keep us posted!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Gold Coast
    479

    Possums my friend..

    You know I am thinking of you and you know I am always here for you.

    Stay strong, I know it is so terribly hard at times like these.

    Let me know if you need to chat.

    Big hugs Bel
    xxxxx

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Aug 2007
    3,526

    Goodluck this afternoon Possums - i hope you get some good news - my fingers are crossed and we all will be thinking about you! Let us know how u go

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Aug 2007
    Perth
    87

    Possums, I hope everything goes great at your OB this afternoon! I'm that everything is alright with your little one xx

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    Hi- I just want to let you all know that I had a bit of scare this morning, as I had some brown spotting. I freaked out obviously and rang my IVF nurse, who was wonderful and managed to call in a sonographer for me (their ultrasound rooms are usually closed today).... and on the scan we saw a beautiful heartbeat!!!! Now up from 106BPM to 146BPM and things measured 7 wks 2 days (we are 7wks 5 days by IVF dates) so all looked good!!!!!
    I can't begin to describe the relief and joy I felt to see our baby still alive and doing well.
    They said they could see some blood on the scan and it looked like old implantation blood, just coming away now.
    I have been praying for our little one and sending all the energy I can and I love our baby so much already. DH and I are so relieved today and hope now things just go smoothly!

  10. #10
    Our IVF Blessing Has Arrived after 6 Cycles

    Apr 2007
    Brisbane Australia
    2,701

    sweetie just what happened to me hun so happy for you godd little bubba

  11. #11
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    Nov 2007
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    Excellent news Possums!!

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    Perth
    242

    Wow Possums, so happy for you!! That's such wonderful news!! Yay!!

    Devon
    xxxx

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    Thanks! now we can have a nice weekend

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    Thank goodness! Enjoy your weekend

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
    1,644

    Just letting you all know, our loved little baby is gone from us. At today's scan there was no heartbeat. I am absolutely devastated.
    Blessings to our angel who lived to 8 weeks...

  16. #16
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    I'm so sorry possums.

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Perth
    296

    Oh Possums, I am so very very sorry for your loss and am sending so much love and support through to you. Oh sweetheart words cannot express how much I am feeling for you right now. Make sure you take your time to grieve and time for yourself to heal.

    Thinking of you and your DH.
    Jodie

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Jan 2006
    Sydney
    1,226

    Possums - I am so so sorry. My heart bleeds for you as I know the devastation you are going thru.
    Give yourself time to grieve - there is no time limit. We all handle things differently.
    It will take some time to come to terms with things.
    Thinking of you..

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