BAL, I agree with you and N2L, bit of both. And don't mind the hijacking at all!
I tried clomid for 6 months and I ovulated on all cycles, but never got a BFP. I think I may have CM issues. When we started TTC I had really long cycles so for the first year I ovulated about 5 times. That's when I was put on clomid, then after I stopped clomid I had a m/c and now I am on my first cycle since the m/c, but I am on CD23 and no sign of ovulation
I am looking into a place and maybe considering IUI. I am also taking vitamins (for ages now) EPO and cutting the caffeine (so hard!)