Ok so this is for my sister not me, and she would kill me if she knew that i was putting this onhere but she does not know that i am a member so all good:-)

Also if i have put this in the wrong section please move it sorry

She found out she was pregnant then at about 12 weeks had a scan and found out she had a molar pregnancy. She had a D&C all was good. Went for a blood test a two weeks ago and her hormones were up so she had a scan today and she now needs chemotherapy every second week for eight weeks.

The thing is that her pregnancy was not planned so she had not told my parents and they still do not know about it. She is NOT going to tell them. saying that they are not close and she does not want them asking her about it and annoying her!!!!!!! I feel really bad keeping it from my parents. I am not going to tell them as i see it as she will NEVER talk to me again. She just keeps saying its not big deal!!! Well i think it is a big deal or am i wrong for thinking that!!!

I just want her to have some support

Its not like they would get angry with her they would be sooooo supportive of her. I am also worried that she might get a bit depressed just the way she is saying oh its no big deal it does not matter, i just want ot get it over with and forget about it, i dont want them (parents) talking to me about it!!!!!
I dont know what to do i cant tell them............

Also is it a big deal, having chemo and everything???
obviously i know chemo is a big deal but is she right in saying its not a big deal that does not really make sense i know!!!

Thanks for listening i dont even know if any of that made sense.