Thanks diannescruffy- i do have one question- with your first baby who had Trisomy 13- had you had any scans previous to your 20 weeks scan? Like the 12 week NT scan or anything that may have shown indicators for any chromosonal problems?

I am kind of feel like either way i am setting myself up for pain- i am scared to get to the 20 weeks scan and need to possibly delivery a baby i wont keep - but i am equally scared to have testing done. I guess i want the confirmation it will all be ok without having the CVS or Amnio- and i am hoping that at least the First Trimester Screening might give us some indication either way.

I will have the screening done next week- so i will just wait and see how that pans out and decide the next step from there.

Thanks