Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss #5

wow, my ob said any bleeding to call him straight away...difference in dr i suppose....do what ever you feel ok with. and of course if it gets any worse or heavier call him straight away..hope everything is ok

Thanks Melster! I think I'm fine now... Thanks for listening and responding!

No more bleeding or spotting since early this morning, so hopefully a good sign... I went to acupuncture, had a bit of a cry. She said maybe it's because of weaning off progesterone pessaries?! I don't know. I called up ob, as I was getting more and more upset. My ob is on holidays for another 3 weeks :$. Nurse I spoke to said normally for miscarriage loads of bleeding and loads of cramping. I could wait for my next scan (in 12 days) or go to GP and get another referral for an ultrasound. I think I'll just wait. Even if they find bub is gone, there is nothing to be done, besides a D&C. It's so hard not to compare it to my last pregnancy, but that wasn't going well from the start. This one has had a marvellous start and hormone levels were all looking good at 7 weeks. I'm staying hopeful this one is a very sticky bubbie.

Hope everyone else is fine today! xx

gotta love these double posts :P

*sneaking in* me4ever i just wanted to say I hope everything is ok xxx

*sneaking in* me4ever, i just wanted to say I am thinking of you and hope all is well xxx
*sneaks out again*

sorry for the double - thought i had lost the post first time around!

Hope you are ok Me4. Thinking of you.

Welcome Lyra! Congratulations on your BFP.

AFM- (this is a direct copy from the bellybuddies thread, because Im lazy like that :p anyway...)

Scan tomorrow. So so scared. I dont want to go.

Found out last night that MIL has told all of her side of the family we're pregnant. According to DF that is my fault because I didnt tell her I wanted to wait until after the scan. Um, excuse me for thinking it was our news to share when WE were ready. Pretty angry. Now if the baby is gone we have an extra 8 or 10 people to inform- although Im sure she'd beat us to that too. Not to mention its OUR NEWS!!
I can feel my BP rise everytime I think about it. Lol maybe Im over-reacting a bit, but Im furious. Not sure why I expected anything different from her though...

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Good luck tomorrow calluna!! It is terribly nerve racking going to that scan after a loss. I was spewing from nerves, even though my ms had passed. Will be thinking of you..
People can't help themselves when it comes to sharing other people's news.. even my dp couldn't keep it to himself until I was ready to share lol

Thanks Preggo!

Cal I'd be ****ed that is your news to share grrrrr but good luck for scan

Me4 sending you a big hug what a tension packed time. My mc lots of blood and it just kept coming with DS little bleed at 5 and 12 weeks bright red no pain so fingers crossed and keep thinking of that healthy hb on your last scan may the next 12 days fly. Also is this ob the same as last time? You could go to the emergency room too if you we're concerned they can get a bt done. My SIL did this a few times before they discovered she has twin uterus.

Mel my job is secure but my big boss is over pg women 8 in the last year. Also job interview coming up so not saying a word to anyone, but I think a work mate is sus I'm so clucky ATM

Booked bubs into child care for sep 2014 crazy but this time I'm going to be more organised. Is anyone else getting hot flushes at night? Driving me nuts maybe its all the extra hormones feel menopausal lol

Double up

Cal - thanks! - Wow you poor thing, with MIL spilling the beans... It sucks because once it's out it can't be taken back... Good luck for the scan tomorrow! Am keeping my fingers crossed your little one is very happy and healthy in your tummy!

Greenslw - thanks for the hug! It all helps! Am feeling heaps better now I've had some people to share it with. The ob is the same one as first time. Will go to emergency if it got real bad, but no bleeding since the light spotting this morning. 8 people pregnant at work in the last year, that's a lot. No wonder you're nervous about telling. It will all be alright though, your boss's response probably won't be as bad as you think at the moment. Let us know when you're ready to tell and we'll send lots of hugs and courage your way! I can't believe how well organised you are in booking the little one in child care already! What did you register bub as? You can't give them a name or sex I suppose :) Hot flushes - hell yeah! I was kicking off the blankets and DH was banned to the other side of the bed, way too hot to have him close. It doesn't help my vivid dreams either, being so warm.

Me4- I bleed in all pregnancies if that helps at all? I always have to see a GP, my OB or the hospital as I'm rhesus negative so my body could produce antibodies to kill bub if I don't. Doesn't help that both DSs' are positive blood groups so that increases my chances. I'm also a very paranoid Mumma and want to get everything checked if something happens. You are right though, nothing can change the outcome much. I would rest up though.

Greenslw- I've let my daycare lady know that she'll be having bub from 6weeks. Till then, I'm taking him to work with me.... Hmm, just noticed I called it a he. Either I'm just used to having boys or I'm getting the same again lol.

Calluna- That's horrible :(

AFM- Only symptom I really have left is ms.if that would go, I'd be happy in my second trimester lol. Had NT bloods today. I'm still annoyedthat even with all the evidence to date, we are going on size for yet another baby for the scan and bloods. I'm afraid it will either make it seem like things are right whgen they are not or make things come back bad that are not. I never had these tests before. I'll be having the scan at 13w6d

Hi Girls!

Sorry for going underground- thanks so much for your well wishes. I guess I just feel a bit nervous about the whole thing and don't want to 'tempt fate' by talking about it too much IYKWIM- although having said that I keep telling people!! lol Becasue we've been doing assisted conception and the way I deal with that is talking about it, so it's pretty hard to keep quiet when my friends ask me how our cycle went. I am a terrible liar!! I had some bleeding last week, just spotting but bright red and 2 days in a row, so was freaking out. I know it can be normal but it hasn't happened to me in last 2 pregnancies. Another blood tomorrow so I guess we'll see... honestly the last 2 weeks have gone SO sloooowwwlllyyyy I just want to go to sleep and wake up at week 14!

Me4ever- I hope your beeling is just normal spotting too. It probably is nothing but I would be wanting to have a scan too love. Who is covering your ob while he's away? Can you ask for a scan just because of your past history and anxiety? If not just go to GP- I did this last time at 9 weeks when my symptoms changed overnight. I rang GP and booked appt and then rang the radiology place and booked an appt and they had a spot an hour after my GP appt for referral! They saw healthy bub but in retrospect I think there were 2 in there (seen leter at D&c) and 1 had just died. They didn't really look very hard for a second one at that point.

Cal- good luck for the scan. I hope it all goes well. I'm sorry about your MIL! That sux! I agree, your news to tell but I guess she couldn't contain her excitement! Make sure you get to tell them the sex!

Hi to everyone else!! Sounds like lots of MS. Boo. Hope you're all coping.

LS x

Thanks kbudgie - you made me smile with the 2nd post! Thanks Lyra, damprye and greenslw as well for your thoughts! I'm just back from the GP as I was starting to worry and she was able to book me in for a scan tomorrow morning! Yay - hopefully all will be well and we'll be able to see a healthy bub! I also got a sick note for tomorrow as I was worrying about the long day and the effects on bub and me. (was scheduled on from 10am - 6pm) I'm so needing my sleeps, and wasn't able to have any today, so don't think I would have coped well missing out on 2 days!

Greenslw and VV how are you girls today?

Lyra - how'd your blood test go? Is your HCG rising as it should? Have you got weekly blood tests?

Cal - I read on the October thread all was well with the bub! Yay - am so excited for you!

Damp - rhesus neg sucks... I'm one as well, but luckily my husband is neg as well, so no needles for me :) As we'll only create a neg bub.

grmbl double post :$

Me4 no name given just booked in thinking of changing DS to this centre too but weighing up the fact it is close to work but further from home so when very pg I'm not sure I want to travel extra. Good luck for tomorrow looking forward to happy news.

Damprye taking bubs to work how awesome I'd love to do that too but not in the office ok list. Nice to fit baby into life. Also I dropped the he bomb myself yesterday as this is the end of ttc a DD would be nice but happy and heathy is all I dare wish for. Not long for scan how exciting. I only want to do the scan to see bubs hope you can enjoy the scan an ignore some of the purpose stuff.

Lyra good luck for bt spotting may be implantation.

I think I'm popping out :) I've been thinking maybe for a week but my pot belly is getting bigger. How exciting.

Humph wish this would stop