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Its very quiet in here!!!!!!!!! its kinda spooky...
wannabemum...he didnt leave..he is just avoiding me all together now..hiding out the back so i cant speak to him or kick him out...men, well my man!!!!! he has such an issue communicating and talking and when he finds it tough he turns his back on the conversation...its so frustrating...nothing ever gets resolved..and now my parents arent really liking him which is going to be difficullt....
WBM...So the cat is out the bag then..how exciting...im sorry to hear about you're back!!!!
4 day week this week..im so tired at work and all i can do is sit here and think about hubby...cant wait till friday...
I have also an ulcer on the tip of my tongue and i have hurt that bit, (uno that bit) that is behind you're teeth at the roof of you're mouth at the front....lol you know which bit in between the two front teeth..the little nobbly bit..its so annoying because my bottom teeth rest up there...and i keep putting my tongue there.....its killing and so annoying...
Although what isnt annoying me at the moment lol...cant wait until these hormones can get out of my system and i can start thinking a bit more clearly and sensibly...:rolleyes:
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Hi girls!
T-hopes - Hope all went well with your op. How did your belly cast go? I'm so sorry to hear of your MIL, you're in my thoughts :comfort:
Ferrals - Glad Ella is going well!
MR - Welcome darl, we understand how you're feeling :hug: Are you having an early scan?
PM - Yep it will be the 12 week scan, very excited but apprehensive of course! I know what you mean about imagining (is that spelt right?!) the worst :hug:
Alish - I've just gone 10 weeks on Monday. I should put a new ticker up but been too scared :lol: That's lovely that your Mum is coming with you to your next scan. Has she ever seen one?
Melster - Yep I'm alright, thanks darl, my sister isn't very well at the moment. Sorry to hear you're having issues with your DH :hug: big hugs for you. Oh and I know exactly what you're talking about in regards to your ulcer! Very annoying!
WBM - Thanks, means a lot. Oooh the news is out, very exciting! How many years marriage will this be for you?
As for me, plodding along. By this stage with Moo I had a cute little baby bump, but because I'm carrying extra weight I'm not showing yet :( CBF doing much around the house & don't have much energy for Moo unfortunately. My oven isn't working which is making life hard. It's enough of a pain to think of something to make, go buy ingredients & get the energy to make it without being restricted to just a stove! I'm having heaps of trouble concentraing lately, probably family stress isn't helping. I had to get my friend to explain to me that we were meeting at her house then walking to get coffee & take the kids to the park about 3 times before I understood :lol:
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G'day ladies - it's T-Hopes' DH here - just wanted to let you guys know her kidney stent procedure went really well but started what we are still not sure might be early labour!?!
Last night she was having contractions 3-4 mins apart but have since eased so we are hoping bubba will stay inside a little longer!!
OB came past and said he wants her to stay in another night just to make 100% sure labour doesn't start - so at this stage we'll be in till tomorrow morning.
She said to say hi and she'll chat herself soon!!
From Mr.T-Hopes
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Hi Mr T-Hopes thanks for the update we are thinking of T-hopes and hopeing all goes well but if bub does come early it will all be fine lots and lots of bubs are born 3-4 weeks early perfectly healthy and a good size to.
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Thanks for the update Mr T-Hopes. Hope T-hopes has a speedy recovery and is home soon. Thinking of you all at this time.
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Cheezel - it'll be 5 years married this year :) 9 years together! Makes me feel old...
Melster - know exactly what you mean about your mouth - got any bonjela lying in a cupboard somewhere? Oh, if no bonjela - go for a salt water rinse, it helps get rid of all the pain and infection - just put a good tablespoon of salt into warm water, mix and swish around in your mouth a few times - tastes disgusting but it's a miracle treatment! Re DH - Avoidance is not good is it. I've had to teach DH to talk to me instead of burying it until it all blows up - I mean that's just not helpful. I wish he would talk to you so you could explain that his presence, even if it's in the back room, is not helping. I hope your parents can be patient, and even if they don't like him, perhaps you could ask them to keep that to themselves so you can work it out yourself. When I had problems with my ex I didn't tell my family because I didn't want them to not like him, but that meant when it went belly up, they didn't get that I'd been completely emotionally abused. Good to have support, but sometimes their opinions don't help! I hope that makes sense!
Thanks for updating us Mr T-hopes, especially when there's so much going on in your life, we appreciate you thinking of us! Glad the procedure went well and that if she goes into early labour she's in the right place! Thinking of you both!
AFM, still suffering in the back department, but I've had a good day with DS, we've been to the park, a long walk (at 19 month old speed), done the shopping and had a 2 hour nap. So feeling well rested, just wish I could take some voltaren! I've picked up the low dose aspirin I have to be on now to prevent a pulmonary embolus (I had one when pg with DS), so better start taking that!
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HI ladies,
I was here a while ago (Jan I think), but left when my twins left to go to heaven. The good news is we're pg again! Can I come back?
I'm 5 weeks today I think, and I've had cramping all day and still heading to the loo every hour to see if I'm bleeding, but so far so good...:pray:
It sounds like everyone is at different stages, some almost due! How exciting! I will do persies when I've been back and read through everything properly.
Stay well,
Bec
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Popping in to say i'm still around. I just have this stupid head cold which wont go away.
I'll pop back in soon :D
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T Hopes and MR T HOPES - glad yo hear your op went well..... stay snug little one, just a little longer! But like Ferrals said, 3-4 weeks early is ok. Thinking of you three......
BecnXavi - CONGRATS!!!! Xavi and Pip are going to be big brothers ( I just kinda assumed Pip was boy...) Well done on being UTD and 5 weeks! Oh oh, I am just so excited now....
CM - know the feeling about stupid head colds. I have just gotten over one, the first one I have ever had where I couldn't take drugs and couldn't rest as HB also had it - poor wee girl. OMG, it was a test of my inner fortitude.
Apart from that, all good here. Belly rubs. I know I don't get in here much anymore.... I am not on BB very much at all really, not like I used to be. Guess it's good for me, but I do miss you. Am looking forward to reading your BA's.
I mean Melster you are 31 weeks now! Oh and I hate tongue ulcers and sore parts behind your top front teeth - did you scald it? That's how mine gets hurt anyways.
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BecnXavi - welcome back! I remember the sad loss of your twins, because it was at a time when I was just starting to TTC after my own ectopic pregnancy. I am so happy for you. I know what you mean about the cramping, the night before I got my BFP I slept with the pad, because I was so sure AF will show up in the morning, the cramping was quite intense. I still feel it every now and then and I am almost 10 weeks.
T-hopes - so exciting, you may be meeting your baby any minute now. Finally, the end to all the PAML worries.
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welcome bec! So exciting!! Are you having bloods or scans or anything or just waiting it out? I had cramps too, and heaps of pain (I had an ovarian cyst around 5cm).
Luna - good to see you around, so pleased things are going well!
dory and Cheshire - how bad are colds at the moment! I mouth breathed and snored (I'm sure) all night and slept awfully b/c I'm coming down with one - so is DS. They suck, especially when you can't take the drugs :(
I say - come back DH! He'll be back Sunday, but probably worse than useless on Sunday, but still can't wait until he is home.
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Cheezel...im sorry to hear you're sister isnt well, yeah i know what you mean about the concentrating thing.....i feel almost dazed out sometimes
Mr T-hopes....thanks for the update. Let Mrs T-hopes know were thinking of her and pray that bubs stays in there a bit longer. Hope she is not in too much pain. Give her a cuddle
Wannabemum...me and hubby are 7 years and 3 married..does that make me old too LOL........yeah i ended up using DD bon, and mum gave me this ulcer stuff that was like a paste you put on..think it is nearly cleared up now thank god.................no good about you're back
I am one to say what i feel, when i feel it. Im not a bottler, i like to get everything out...and hubby has made that very hard for me lately which is why i am having so many issues..i want to be heard and listened to and my views validated even if he doesnt agree....i want to resolve the problems and move on..............i tend to say things straight away and want to get it off my chest and confront it and then move on. hubby says i am too forward and quiet harsh. Then he is the complete opposite, he doesnt like to deal with things, he prefers to ignore them until they fester and he reaches boiling point and then everyone cops it. Its like he cant handle too much information at once..cant handle any cristisim thats thrown at him and he gets too flustered. So he turns his back and walks away so ic ant finish, and because i am one to want to talk about it and deal with it...it all blows up..because i think its very disrespectful and rude not to listen to what someone is saying...even if you dont like it. He will ignore my texts, calls, letters if it has to do with issues...and then i have no idea how he really feels......how can denial work and make you happy...you can't just walk around pretending everything is ok and hope it blows over..........thats why the circle continues with him......anyways thats my spat....he hasnt gone still he is just avoiding me at all costs...
Bec.......welcome again and congratulations....how are you feeling about this pregnancy??????? how have you been going?
Cheshire...hello...sorry to hear about you're cold..hope you get better soon
Dory....hey how are you and bubs doing? i know i am nearly 32 weeks...so 8 weeks to go..it doesnt seem real..although when bubs moves now it feels like an alien in there LOL...i dont know how i did it, i was quiet stressed the other day and im wondering if i did it myself or in my sleep...when i get stressed i curl my toes..im wondering if i was grinding or something instead
Luna..how are you going?
ATM....last day at work today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i cannot wait to have a rest...its amazing how tiring working 4 days again can be when pregnant...i just want a sleep in and a cuddle with my DD............im a bit emotional at the moment and think i need a rest from everything and a good sleep
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wannabemum: ive been married 9years and together 15yrs....Just saying makes me feel REALLY old.....Im only 33 :rofl:
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we're all young :) Just that we met the right person young :D
Melster, I think your DH and my DH have some similarities - thank goodness my DH has started to learn to talk! I hope yours will come around and listen to you, at least to enjoy the birth of his baby!
I'm 95% sure I felt baby move today! I was lying on my tummy on the floor with my head and shoulders up (playing with DS) and felt some definite movement! I think stretching out bubby helped :) So exciting! I know it's early, but I'm still pretty sure!
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Thanks for the welcome back ladies!
Dory: It's funny DH thought Pip was a boy too, but I was sure it was a girl...We haven't told Xav yet but he's getting the vibe I guess. He said to me this morning "Mum do we have to wait 80 YEARS untill there's a baby in your tummy?!" ahh, the impatience of 4 year old. If early scan are ok we'll take him to the 12 week scan.
Luna: I'm sorry you suffered an ectopic too. I am still nervous, especially since it's only been 4 months since I lost Pip and 3 months since the missed m/c was removed via D&C. I'm worried all the surgery, plus the c/s scar might be an issue...I hope not! Congrats on being 9 weeks along!
WBM: I've had bloods done last week (hcg 27 & 147 72hours apart) and I am scheduled for a scan next Wednesday with my FS. I saw my GP today and he referred me to my OB and gave me a form to go and get a scan today if I wanted one. I figure they wont be able to see anything yet, so I'll wait till next week if I don't have any severe pain. Congrats on your pg too!
Melster: Congrats on your last day of work, woohoo! I hope you get what you need on the home front and find some peace. AS for how I'm feeling re this pg, I'm anxious, but I am very much trying to view it was what will be, will be. I'm in a good place psychologically, and DH and I are just trying to stay calm (easier said than done!).
Hi to everyone else! I hope everyone is enjoying peaceful, happy pregnancies!
AFM: m/s kicked it up a little today and I actually thought I might be sick! I decided to stay home from work since I was there untill 8.30 last night anyway, and I was sore and my back hurt and I felt rotten! I'm a little worried about how much my belly is already feeling bigger, wondering about double trouble again! We'll see next week I guess. I went and bough a new revised copy of 'Up the Duff' which I've read from cover to cover, but I wanted to updated one. So I'm going to pick DS up from Kinder and curl up and read that whilst he has a nap this afternoon!
Stay well everyone!
Bec
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hey bec i had a ectopic too and fell with molly only weeks after all the surgery and she is .....perfect.....! congrats on your pregnancy, so glad you didnt have to wait 80yrs!
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wannabemum...he will talk but only if i talk the way he wants me too. Its too frustrating if i cant be myself and the smallest upset sets him off...congrats on the movement..i love the babies first movements!!!! now they just hurt lol
Bec....sorry i meant last day of the WEEK.....lol lol......do you have twins in the family?
2.18mins to GO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Not that your counting Mel.....:rofl:
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hi everyone
bec - welcome to the group. ill say for the millionth time im so excited for you
mel - bah so jealous. i wish i was finishing work today. im sorry about you and your dh too.. hopefully you can work things out with him? my dh is a bad communicator too if we fight.. guess its a man thing
cheezel - im not sure if shes ever seen a baby this far along.. i know she last seen bubs around 8 weeks but im not sure if she ever went with my sister when she was pregnant or if she had one with me??
10 weeks already? it seems like yesterday when you came in here, im glad things are going well..
thanks for the update mr thopes.. im glad she is doing well ..
sorry no more persies, im a bit out of it today.. and in a mood.. and stressed !!
hugs to you all xx
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