Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

far out ladies you talk too much :o

Yes im out of the shower now.....

It was bliss

Molly screaming! Gotta run!

I cant keep up LOL :D

How can i nurse another month when i am the size of an elephant and i cant bend :shakehead:

be back tommorow to catch up im stuffffffffffffed :asleep:

i have missed so much.

For all of you dealing with CS i dont know if its the same there as it is here but it sucks especially if your the father i am sorry for that

I too have been thinking about murraycod also

S@S i have been signing on fast just to see how everyone is doing.

Teagam~ i swear that my lil one could be sound asleep i could try to take a 3 min shower and she wakes up.

To everyone else i am so sorry that i missed you
my thoughts are with you all.

dampyre - your family sounds very negative & you dont need that sh*t in your life!
im sick of work, i work with all men, they are worse than women! id quit but we cant afford it unless we sell the house :(

indias mum - my nausea comes and goes lately it just lasts for a couple of hours, rather then all day, some days im completely fine.

eh i woke up with a headache this morning i hate that!
my friend bought her baby around yesterday he is 4 months old, and sooooo gorgeous i love him so much! and he still has that gorgeous baby smell that i love!

have a lovely day ladies xx

T.G.I.F!!!!

Murrycod was due 2 weeks ago so she should of had the bub but it's possible she hasnt i sent her email last week and still no reply i will wait awhile and try again.

Mildez-I am feeling so much better now even if the placenta doesnt move anymore my risk of hemorrage should be lower as the placenta is off the cerix and more on the left just a few more cm's would be good.

Damprye-Dont worry about that side of the family when i was pregnant with Abbi no one in my family were real impressed as i already had 3 boys and it was my 2nd marriage all my sisters and brother (some step) all have 1 or 2 children and wont have anymore they all own houses and then there is me 2nd marriage and starting again and renting.
When everything started to go bad everyone was devastated that we were going to lose Abbi they all said you can try again you can have another baby and now they are all over the moon and so excited they wrap me in cotton wool as this little girl is so precious to them what a change i just thought it is great that they are so supportive now and love this bub even before she is here but at the end of the day it is my life my family and i am happy so i dont care what anyone else thinks or says if i want 4 kids i will and if i want 10 i will so they can just deal with it.

AFM-I have my OB appointment today so cross fingers good news from him on the placenta c section front.

dampyre boo to your family seeming more excited about your cousins babies not yours. I felt envious of a lady I know having twins. Everyone is so excited (its her 4th and 5th) and bending over backwards to help her. Thats all good but it pee'd me of that she was the ones having twins (she hardly has her older 3 youngest is only 12months old and in daycare full time) especially when she got pregnant with her 3rd well over a yr after I started trying for my third and now she is due to have another 2. Oh well call me the green eyed monster. I think it hurt as much as it did as now she will have 5 whilst I wanted the large family and am unlikely to have anymore now with the infertility and DH pulling the pin on our original plan.

Oh well enough doom and gloom Ferrals I hope you get excellent news about your placenta today and know how much it needs to move for a vag birth.

Of to drop DD to school BBL!

Cheshire - thinking of you today with your scan.

Ferrals - you too, hope you get some good news with your appointment.

T- Hopes - thanks sweetie - little HB is just awesome. I adore her so much... each day my love grows, and I think it can't possibly grow anymore and then it does. The good times are just so amazingly good. Sorry about your pelvic instablity. I had it, yikes it was painful. I just sucked it up but WISHED I had bought some IRC pregnancy pants. I bought their recovery pants and they helped me no end after the caesear, but I couldn't justify getting the preg pants so late in my preg. They are expensive, but the recovery pants worked an absolute treat... so if $ isn't too tight, have a think about them. I will def get some next time.....hehe, hoping that is sooner rather than later....no cycle yet, but I keep saying to myself, I could have o'ed and caught that eggie.... will be taking a hpt on the weekend though. Well done on getting to 23 weeks. yay!

India's mum - I had nausea that would come and go from 3 weeks to 12 weeks... and then it tapered off... it would come back sometimes. it's so hard in the early weeks, and especially when in your mind the m/s disappearing coincided with your loss. All I can say is, every pregnancy is different, and wish you lots of pukies/nausea and sticky vibes.

Dampyre - hugs hun... your bubba is important to us! It's so hard when you feel unsupported.. sorry your fam is stepping up. Hugs.

Kell - yikes.... rest up sweetie and if work gets too much... see if you can go on "lighter duties"... I know they don't really exist in your job, but worth a try.

Mildez - hmm sorry forgot what I wanted to say. Not long now, will have to do.

AFM - reality check. I was nauseous last night and couldn't sleep, though eventually I did out on the lounge watching tv. Hannah had a great night thankfully. I am hoping I haven't caught a bug and it's just my funny old digestive system being naughty. And before you get too excited, it didn't feel like m/s nausea, which for me has always had a distinctive feel to it which is different from digestive nausea which is different from germy/bug nausea. Who would have thought it?

Just off to check the BA's to see if Murray has posted. I haven't had a response from her either Ferrals.. I might ask Crafty is she's heard.

just a quick update....dad hasnt had a stroke or anything like that....so now its off to the nuro surgeon and see about dementia...hopefully he can take a tablet and hold it off for a little while......guess its kinda good news in a away.........

Back at home now as well and trying to sort through things with hubby....

Now its just waiting for the dreaded cs stuff and the idiot ex

Hope u ladies are well and good luck with all ur scans and pregnancies etc..

Will try and do persies later..

Just subscribing before I forget... nothing really happening here, exhausted and tired and oh so freaking sore in the pelvis... Hope everyone else is ok!

Thanks for your comments ladies. Feeling quite sick again now so that is a relief. Funny - I didn't get any morning sickness with the first 4 pregnancies. It's amazing how different every pregnancy is.

Damprye - sorry to hear people are not excited for you. When I was 9 weeks pregnant with the first one I lost we were OS visiting DH's Mom. I told her virtually as soon as I got off the flight and invited her to visit so she could be there at the birth. I thought she would be thrilled. All I got in response was "Oh . . ." Not once during our visit did she ask about what we were hoping for or any questions about bub. As DH's brother and wife were still struggling with IVF it was obvious that only good news from them was welcome and our news was not. I was so very hurt. I lost our baby the last day of the visit and found it very hard to except her condolences.

Just waiting to see if there's any news about Murraycod!

Hi girls,

Kit-Murrycod logged into BB on the 13th of this month but has not posted i hope she is ok i have sent her a few emails and not recieved any replies i will leave her alone she will email me when she is ready.

Melster-that is good news so to speak i hope it keeps getting better.

AFM-seen the OB my placenta is 7mm away from the cervix so still to close for a safe natural delivery my c section is still booked for the 16th of march but i do have another scan in 12 days to check it again it has to be at least 15mm away or 2.5cmm before they will even consider a v jay jay birth but hey it has moved this far and off the cervix so 12 days can make a difference fingers crossed.

Just a quickie from me.
We saw & heard a beautiful little heartbeat, It was the best noise & i almost burst into tears :)

FX Ferrals!

I haven't read any if the posts but just wanted to subscribe as I got lost again! BBL x

Quickie from me- Well I announced the pregnancy on facebook for all my family to see today and those that don't like it can deal with it and put up with me deleting any negative posts and I will accept the positive ones from the people that do actually care about us :) My Grandfather is totally smitten with bub already and will be booking his flight over as soon as bub arrives lol.

Its gone quiet in here!
Im 30 weeks today yipee
Ill be back after work - yuk yuk yuk dont want to go :-(

sorry girls, selfish post here. I noticed today that I have 3 or 4 flat pink spots on my belly. They remind me of the beginning of chicken pox, however I've already had it. I don't feel sick, or fluey, and the spots are completely flat and non-itchy. Anyone ever had this?

Very curious.