thread: i'm scared

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    between the mountain & the ocean
    757

    i'm scared

    my pg symptoms are fading and I think I know what that means I have had slight cramping (not even bad enough to take panadol) in my abdo and my lower back, my bbs are hardly sore anymore, where as before I couldn't even put on a bra, i'm not feeling as sick and my appetite is coming back..

    why does this have to happen again, last time this happened it ended in m/c.. the fading symptoms seem to be a huge indicator for me that this baby is leaving me..

    anyone else think they were losing their baby because of fading symptoms only to have a healthy baby? because I know I haven't

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    Melbourne
    502

    I don't have much advise, but just wanted to give a a big I know how you feel. I am 5wks pregnant with no signs and am terrified every moment. I was the same with my first pregnancy. No signs until I felt the baby move at 14 weeks. As mums I guess we never stop worrying. Hope it is a sticky bubba for you. again.

  3. #3

    Jul 2009
    Australia
    5,102

    With my DD i had no symptoms at 7 weeks i worried and then they came back twice as strong at 8 weeks and i was soooo sick.

    I have everything crossed that this bubba sticks.

  4. #4
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    massive sirenz- you know my story so I can't give you any positive story as I am in the same boat.

    Just wanted to say i really, really hope that everything is ok and your bubby is a sticky one, losing symptoms is so hard as you are constantly 'aware' that you feel fine, it sux majorly xxx

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Brisbane
    5,039

    i am so sorry you are so concerned. hopefuly this is just a sign that you are going to have a wonderfully easy pregnancy...

    fwiw i have had 6 pregnancies and 4 have given me a beautiful baby...all of them have had very different symptoms or lack of and there was no descrimination between the losses and the wins!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
    4,895

    I have no good news to share either, but just wanted to come in and give you some hugs. I wish that the lack of symptoms doesn't mean bad news.

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Sep 2007
    Melbourne
    506

    I had sore bbs with DD1 it was my only "symptom" it faded at about 9 weeks and i thought the worst, she is now 3! Hope your story has a happy ending. Sending you truck loads of sticky vibes and

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Dec 2006
    between the mountain & the ocean
    757

    thanks for your replies everyone. i'm hopefull going for a scan on thursday. i'm very nervous about it, i will let you know how i go

    Saffy - how is everything going with you?

  9. #9
    Platinum Subscriber

    Apr 2010
    coastside, Vic
    2,172

    I've got a scan on friday, feeling like it might not be good but who knows, I get symptoms on and off but has been like that the whole way.

    Best of luck for friday, you will fall off the table if you get good news, I really hope theres a sticky bub in there xx

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    675

    Good luck to you & hoping for great results at you scan (you too Saffy) x