:rofl: i had no pains, i didn't do anything different & them bam 8:28pm i get up to pee & my waters break.
So you never know ;)
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:rofl: i had no pains, i didn't do anything different & them bam 8:28pm i get up to pee & my waters break.
So you never know ;)
ohhh thats promising :D
hi girls, not looking good for me here, had a scan today which measured a week behind and had a slow HB, was told there was 95% chance of m/c, having a scan again next week but I do not know how I am going to bounce back from this one, I'm devastated.
Awww Saffy i'm really sorry to hear that, is there any chance that your dates are wrong?
well I was ivf so not really but I guess there is a small leeway, will have to wait and see, thanks xx
oh Saffy so sad for you. I am hoping for you that the embie was really lazy with the implantation and that is why it is a week behind now.
Saffy- I hope they are wrong...
Alish- Im with cheshire! my waters broke as well. I lost a big chunk of plug about 6 hours prior though. Have you had any signs besides pains?
AFM- 6 days until anatomy scan!
Saffy~ Darling I am sending you some huge hugs and praying that all is going to be ok for you and your little growing bub darl. My heart is breaking for you after reading your post, please know you are in my thoughts and i am sending you some sticky vibes for a H&H pregnancy darl. Good luck at your next scan and I just hope and pray it all ends very well for you in just under 8 months time darl. Hugs to you darl.
saffy im so sorry :( - but im with the others hopefully the dates are abit out. massive hugs to you.
i went to the hospital last night as i though i had heavy leakage the last 2 days, like seriously id just go to the toilet and then get nothing out then have a tiny gush of fluid. turns out it is just urine/discharge WTF???? how gross!!!! i feel like a bit of a d*ckhead but im not to know!! especially when they tell me its most prob my membranes rupturing and most prob needed antibiotics/inducing :o i burst into tears haha i thought i was ready but im not! all is good though :D
the mrs - apart from the pains & the leakage ive been really shaky/nauseous (not too bad though)/headachey. i see my dr on monday and he said if things had started to progress he will give me a stretch and sweep to try and get things going for me so im hoping something has started to happen?? surely???
have a lovely weekend ladies - i think i get my hubby for the whole weekend this weekend... oh my! quality time
saffy - you rest up and try not to worry xoxox
Alish- I think your almost there hun! My guess for you is next friday!
Alish- Any time now hey? :D DS2 came 38w1d and was coming that day even if they didn't help us along with the AROM.
Saffy- All my pregnancies have measured two weeks behind and two of those ended up being just fine. Hopefully the low HB is just bub having a nap. Thinking positively for you and sending sticky vibes your way.
Everyone else- Congrats and cannot wait to see BAs from all of you.
AFM- Guess it's time to move on from this thread as I now have my cuddle baby. Thank you all for your support over the last 9months + extra from those I met in the TTC threads :)
Just got back from the ER and I'm super p*****!!
I woke up with what I believed to be heavy contractions with extreme pressure. We dropped DD off at a friends house and DH and I ran to the ER. When we got there I expected to go to the maternity ward to see if I was having contractions...NOPE! Apparently you have to be 20 weeks to go to the maternity part...which Im 2 weeks away from!! So I'm sent to the ER triage and given a crappy bedside ultrasound. Its so horrible they can't even check cervical length. They dont hook me up to see if Im contracting or nothing!!! Im in so much pain Im doubled over. I called my OB's office to speak to an on-call Dr. Since its the weekend the Dr. suggested bedrest until monday and call my dr....so sad :(
omg jess - thats crappy treatment - is there another hospital close by you can go to??
what did they say with the bedside ultrasound? did they see anything
what did the on call dr say it could be??
im sorry you have been treated like that :hug: maybe its just bubs way of telling you to take it easy..
Aish- Horrible service! Basically gave me no advice and said i was too early to do anything. So when I got home I called my OBGYN office on call dr to ask advice. They are afiliated with the hospital we want to give birth in which is 30 minutes away, i went to the in town hospital which sucked. The dr on call said unless i want to go to er up there to wait util monday to speak to my dr....
i feel so un cared for...
Im the kind of person who HATES hospitals..DH knows i wouldnt have gone unless i really was hurting. This pain has been constant now for 8 hours
are you bleeding?
TheMRs~ yeah it sucks that the hosptials will make you sit in the er until 20 weeks i am thinking of you and passing you good vibes hoping this hurcane does not hit were i am
I'm sorry that they treated you like that Jess, but unfortunately most hospitals have that 20wk policy & wont do anything to help you before then it sucks.
Anyways i really hope the pains eases up & it's nothing serious :hug:
Jess, I hope the pain has gone and it was nothing to worry about. All hospitals (at least in Aus - and it seems in the US too) only send you to maternity from 20 weeks. In Australia it is where a baby is termed a stillbirth as opposed to a miscarriage. Fairly arbitrary I think! I hope bubs was nice and happy, even on the crappy ultrasound and that you've been able to get some rest. I'm glad DH was there to see you through - it is better to have someone with you through that time!
angel - good luck with Irene, I hope she passes you by and you are safe!
DS had what is possible his worst night ever last night. And that includes the newborn time. He was completely hysterical most of the night and we could not fathom what the hell was wrong. DH and I are completely knackered. I hope he sleeps well tonight! We definitely don't need a repeat. On the plus side, went and visited a dear friend yesterday who has her new baby at home now. They're doing really well :)
Alish- luckily no bleeding...just horrid pressure and pain that has not gone away
Angelfish- I hope you guys are ok over there! Stay safe!
Cheshire- Yeah it sucks being right before the 20 wk mark...and its scary to think if any thing were to happen..only a matter of days would be the difference :(
WBM- Yeah the crappy u/s thing was ridiculous..i've been there before in ER with previous mc, so I knew they had better ones...they were being lazy
Thanks everyone for your concerns! DH is making me sit on my butt and eat pizza and watch T.V. :) Im thinking if this is not preterm labour that im having serious ligament tearing/stretching. I had to wear a brace with DD just to walk because of the pain but that wasnt until 30 weeks? This is way to early for it..and way worse. I havent been able to stand striahgt all day without shooting pains radiating across my bikini line
Are you still peeing all the time?
If so maybe you do have an infection which could be causing the pain.
i agree with cheshire! id be asking for another uti test
TM I'd go back and demand antibiotics just in case its an infection which it sounds like to me.
Alish I hope bubs is cooperating and comes soon for you. Looking forward to your BA soon
Damprye how's things going
Hi to everyone else. Hope your all well.
Afm going to book in my 20 week scan tomorrow. I'm so nervous. I hope everything is ok with my belly monster I haven't felt proper movements for a few days now just niggles really but that is what happens with anterior placentas I've been told. I have my doppler so hopefully I can get a reading on it this afternoon :)
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The Mrs - In Australia they won't send you up to maternity until 20 weeks but when I went to the ER with bleeding at 15 weeks they brought a doctor down from maternity to see me. Even though I know they can't do anything before 20 weeks, just being kind and reassuring can really help you mentally which can help improve the physical problem. The way you were treated really sucks!
hey all
im off to my drs today - he said he will do a s&s today if something has started to happen, so wish me luck!
lysndan - everything will be fine :hug:
the mrs i hope youre feeling better & i hope something can be done today (monday in usa??)
hello to everyone else, i hope youre all well. belly rubs xoxox
How'd ya go today Alish?
he did an internal - cervix is soft but not dialated :( i now have period pain type pain all across my back & front
im soo over it :(
Alish i know how you feel, but the longest you have to wait is 3 & half more weeks, Your so close now.
Just keep thinking positive thoughts & don't let it get you down :hug:
Alish - it will happen! Eventually, longest part of a pregnancy that bit...
Jess - hope you're feeling better, I agree with the girls, get your UTI status checked, and if they're still saying your urine's clear, get them to check your kidneys too (even just to make sure they're not tender). Your DH sounds lovely, I hope he's still looking after you!
Hope everyone else is well at the moment :) This bubs is a little rockstar in there - just keeps on dancing. It's nice :) I just organised one of my mothers' group friends to be my student midwife support person :) It helps her with her studies, and gives me another person in my corner. DH was so not fussed about it, it was lovely. I certainly wouldn't have asked her if he wasn't ok about it. I reckon she can tell him what to do and he wont feel as useless! She's had two of her own bubs too, so I know she's done it naturally twice - anything to increase my odds of a VBAC.
My SIL was due on Saturday - I can't wait to meet my nephew and be an auntie at last! They're going to be awesome parents. He's a lucky little boy :)
Cheshire - Stoked's little boy is called Zac William and PM's little girl is Jordana (Jordy) - for the list :) lovely names!
Hey girls! Sorry I didn't update..seems I pulled a muscle in my abdomen pretty bad and that is what was causing all of the pain. I was checked for an UTI about 3 days ago and it came back great so no UTI. The pulled muscle doenst affect the baby but it sure hurts me. Slowly over the days it has been getting better, so anticipating no more pain.
Alish- if it makes you feel better, I was a fingertip dilated the day my water had broke. My cervix was soft as well, but not dilated either. 8 hours later...my water broke! :) So..you never know!! Besides..being dilated doesnt mean a whole lot because I have known people who were dilated to a 4!! for weeks
3 more days until my ultrasound!
jess - so glad to gear its *just* a pulled muscle - even though that is still painful its not the worst news ;) very relieved for you!
not long now til you see your little one/find out the sex!!!
omg the internal he gave me yesterday gave me pains all night! i should just get dh to put his fingers up there and have a dig around haha!
i think i was more disappointed cuz my dr def wont be there to deliver the baby now.. he goes overseas for 6 weeks and today was his last day. now i have to see random people who i dont even know :( oh well thats life! i didnt think it bothered me but it does!
wbm - that will be nice - to have an extra support person! glad dh wasnt fazed! has your sil had the bubs?
hello to everyone hope youre well & have a lovely day xoxo
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~Stoked~ - 18th August- Zac William
Damprye - 18th August - Tobias Gabriel
Jess i'm glad it was nothing serious & hope you start feeling better soon.
Thanks WBM i updated the list again :D
Wow everything is flying by quicky in here when I go away for a few days. Not alot going on here atm apart from the odd session of throwing up, still totally exhausted everyday, tender BBs and lots of gas and have also started getting headaches now as well. I am a firm beleiver that this bub has to be a boy....lol...I have another GP appointment tomorrow to have this lump removed from my neck so feeling very scared about that, I have NEVER been cut open before and I have to brave this one by myself as DH has to work..
Will be ringing up to book my 12 week scan in the few days trying to leave it as long as possible as last time I was organised ahead of time then had to make phone calls to cancel everything. Hope you are all going well, sorry for the lack of personals I will start trying to keep up when I am feeling better.
Cheshire~ Just wanted to let you know my due date is the 30th March darl.
Belly rubs to you all, xox.
clairesmummy - whats on your neck? a cyst? not long now until your nausea etc hopefully stops
look how far along you are now, its gone quick already! x
Hey Alish, the DR is very concerned it may be a cancer that is on my neck and they dont want to wait until after I have bub to take it off to tomorrow is D day for the lump. My nausea is slowly getting a bit better I find if I dont eat when I feel hungry and I mean eat straight away that's when I am getting sick so I have been trying really hard to eat as soon as the urge arises. Not long now and you will be holding you little one in your arms darl, sending you some bring on labour vibes darl.
oh gosh CM all the best! i hope its not.. ill be thinking of you xoxo
Thinking of you tomorrow CM x
CM- Hope everything goes well :)
Thank you everybody for your support for tomorrow, it's all pretty scarey for me but I am trying to remain positive about the whole thing. Just not looking forward to being cut open at all, being cut is one of my huge fears.
Today also marks the very day I found out last pregnancy that my bub ha passed away, so today is all a little emotional for me.
:hug: claresmummy-hoping everything goes smoothly xxxx
Thanks Saffy, I am still praying for you to darl. What day do you have your scan darl? Wishing you all the best luck for it darl and please know my thoughts and prayers are with you darl. xox