yes, its very very sad news :(
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yes, its very very sad news :(
Urgh, that is devestating news for poor Ahurani & her family. My heart is heavy with her loss.
Hi to everyone else - dont feel like any personals now :(
So sorry for Ahnrani and also for you girls left pregnant at the moment, such a stressful time already and then to read about things like this. Remember to come here and talk and get support, you are not taking anything away from Ahurani talking about your fears and feelings.
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:cry:This world is such a cruel place sometimes -
Ahurani, I dont know you personanally but my heart aches for the loss of your baby girl, you are in my prayers and thoughts and I will light a candle today for your beautiful little angel xx
Hugs to you all - I know how scary it is - but you're not likely to have to walk the path that Ahruni is... but it's still so scary. Keep strong. You all can do this. I beleive in you and your bubs.
Joeve - welcome sweetie and congrats on that BFP. Wishing you a happy and health pregnancy.
Jenna - yep, I get all loose... haha, and an enormous amount of pelvic pressure at the same time.
Ferrals - welcome home with you and Ella. Sweetie, you're most welcome about Abbi. Glad I can still find it in me to get some meaningful words out. Sometimes it just feels like I talk jibber jabber.
Just a quick update on our pregnantest one -Forshelby- she's in hossy, waiting, waiting, waiting. Didn't get much sleep last night, and hoping that labour really establishes itself soon.
ALISH - glad you got to see your little one and that you got a wave! YAY!
thanks for the update dory
Jeove - Congrats on your BFP! Sending you lots of sticky vibes :)
Dory - Thanks darl :) And thankyou for the update on Forshelby, I've been thinking of her as well today.
Alish - Glad you got to see your bub and got a wave! I loved my 12wk scan, and Little Miss was even giving us a thumbs up in one of the pics we got
Tegam - Thank you for your words, I've been avoiding BB since I found out the news early this afternoon, just didn't know what to do or say or where I could say anything, or if anything that I did say would be taken the wrong way :(
afm - Only been getting BHs since yesterday evening now :(
Sitting here at the computer eating chocolate, which I shouldn't do because of the GD, but I haven't eaten anything else, haven't even had my lunch time insulin, just really can't bring myself to eat anything more substantial or do anything...
I just want to be holding my baby girl already so that I can know she's safe, and alive, and breathing, and crying, so that I can whisper in her ear and tell her how much I love her.
I've been crying on and off all afternoon, and did a bad thing and had a cigarette - I've been almost completely cigarette free since 13wks, only previously had one when things have gotten really bad, and to me this is one of those really bad things :(
If I wasn't pregnant I'd be drowing my sorrows in alcohol right now, just to numb everything, I don't want to be feeling like this, and I know it's so so so soooo much worse for Ahurani, I want to give her a big hug, to turn back time and change things and make it so that this never happened... I feel so useless right now.
I want my baby already :(
Oh Jenna, we are all feeling helpless but i knew as soon as i read the news what it would do to those of you waiting for your babies! There is nothing you can say that is wrong and yes dont we wish we could all turn back time. Why oh why any women has to face/live thru what Ahurani is today is unimaginable...... Your baby girl is perfect and right where she should be, be strong for her just a little longer, you can do, i know you can!
Dory thanks for the update.....i have to admit that i didnt want to open that thread this morning for fear of forshelby but then again i really just never want to read anything like that for anyone :(
What a totally tragic day..........
I just dont have words i have been waiting for Ahurani's BA and was totally ablivious this morning when i hopped on BB and posted i hadnt even read our belly buddies thread all the way to the end and then this arvo i was hearbroken all my fears that i had while pregnant came true for Ahurani life is so cruel.
I will be off for a few days just cant get my head around this right now maybe my hormones.
Dory-please tell forshelby i am thinking of her and am looking forward to her BA when i come back i wont be gone long just feel overwhelmed.
UPDATE on FORSHELBY.... our pregnantest one is being induced tomorrow... she was in the mat ward but then got sent home as labour stopped.. she was releived to go home and get some sleep but not relieved because she wants to meet the little cherub... She's consulted with the Dr's and is willing to be induced as this prelabour stuff has gone on long enough, and also if the waters have broken this whole caper can't go on for too long.
So FX that the induction is a speedy one and there'll be a BA tomorrow sometime.
THanks for the update Dory! xx
Thanks for the welcome Dory and Jenna xx
Had my BT today and all came back positive, another booked for Thursday. I am hoping for stickiness in bulk amounts...will i ever relax? At the moment I am tense.
:hello: everyone
That is so beautifully said, thank you for expressing what I wanted to say so eloquently. Nothing can lessen their pain at the moment.:
:grouphug: It's not what happens all the time girls, hold on to your little ones, and if you're got earth babies already give them a cuddle. Give the unborn ones a cuddle too. They're all lucky to have Mummies who love them and want them so much. Hayley is lucky to have a Mummy and Daddy who love her very much also, she will always be a big part of their life.
Joeve - welcome and congratulations, I feel the worry and fear, especially now. Just remember, most pregnancies bear healthy babies, that's the norm, not the sadness that's affected all of us here at least one time, and poor Ahruni and her DH now. :hug:
Good luck forshelby, so glad you get to meet your little one soon! Hopefully all the prelabour means a quick, safe labour for you!
AFM, I'm anxiously awaiting BT results tomorrow - and I'm going to ask for another BT, considering I had it done last Thursday, it'll be nearly a week! Hopefully I can see doubling of that hcg result.
Joeve - congrats on the BFP sweety!
To everyone else -hope all are well - be back tomorrow for a better day I hope!
Good luck tommorow Forshelby cant wait to know your bub is safely in your arms
I dont understand and never will why innocent babies are taken its beyond my comprehension. :(
Time to be off BB for tonight its too sad
hi joeve, congrats on your bfp and welcome :)
hi everyone else hope youre all well
:)
Wonder how forshelby is going?
Update on our pregnantest one - Forshelby had a sleepless and worried night.... but no more news. I am sending her lots of CTX vibes.
Joeve - For me, there was never any point at which I stopped being anxious but what I was anxious about did change, but certainly the early weeks have a unique stress all of their own. FXf for your BT.
Wannbemum - well said!
Jenna - I can't say it any better than TegamM or Wannabe.... go gently sweetie, this is a really tough time. Now is not the time to loose your focus You can do this! I BELIEVE IN YOU.
AFTROY - As for the rest of you? I want you to consciously do something super nice and indulgent for yourselves. Consciously and deliberately nice. Not just a quick scoffing of a choccie or hot drink, but something you consciously enjoy... and while doing that, give your belly a loving cuddle and breathe.... you can do this.