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My partner set me up with a new computer yah for internet again!
Alish - yah for flutters you must be close to your 20 week scan?
Sorry Melster about your dad - when is your dads operation?. Will be thinking of you and praying for a safe recovery. Its not fair he has to go through it. We are here for you xoxoxox
T-hopes congrats on 30 weeks. Sorry to hear about your MIL cancer its just heartbreaking :-( im sure it gives her great joy that her grandchild will be here soon
Possum magic - i love the fruit ticker how cute your baby is a mango. Yah for flutters they are the best soon they'll be thumps :D
Mildez how is the breastfeeding going have they settled?
Dory i didn't know you were a moderator - congrats
Well we had a big scare yesterday morning bubs HR was 180 and he seemed stressed anyway cheeky monkey was just being naughty as an hour on the monitor he was fine! he even went to sleep and his HR was around 150. Eeeek i hadn't even packed a bag so this def motivated me to go home and get organized. Now have my bags packed and ready and am scrubbing the house.
Anyway my Bp is a little high and blood sugars are high so our little man will be out in 2 WEEKS!!!! my OB dosent want me to go past 38 1/2 weeks so ill be induced.
I was upset all day yesterday as i wanted to go to 40 weeks but the end of the day id rather have him safe in my arms so am coming to terms with it.
Better go and clean some more - belly rubs for all
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hey kell, my next obgyn appt is on the 21st april, which will make me almost 20 weeks, i had the "20 week" scan booked in at 19 weeks but he made me push it back til 22 weeks, just to make sure they can see everything, so that will be on the 3rd may, boo! hopefully doc can tell me on the 21st if its a boy or girl, everyone in my bb group are having their scans in the next 2 weeks so i feel a bit left out haha!
oh wow yeah that would scare me too, what a cheeky little man :) omg 2 weeks how exciting :):):)
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Hi girls, wow things are very exciting in here with scans, flutters and other cool stuff! i am still not relaxing but I think thats normal. Do you ever relax?
Love to all xxx
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Alish - hope you're feeling more refreshed today.
Reet - how are you? All ok? You've been quiet. Hugs to Yogi.
Kell - oh dear that is a scare - not long now til your little man is here. Don't worry about being upset, things are just working out a little different to what you'd expected so it's normal to feel upset while you adjust to your new reality.... LOL re no bag packed.... glad your boy gave you a wriggle on. Thanks on the mod thing, it's only just happened.
Joeve - no the fear never leaves.... how is your preg going? Any m/s? Any smell aversions?
AFM - we had swimming lessons today. We moved from Saturdays as we were the only one in the class and it's really busy and as a result of being busy it's noisy and Hannah always cries with the noise. So today it was quiet and we were the only ones in the class and the entire pool. It's hard going by myself instead of with DH, cause after swimming I give Hannah a shower and have t strap her into her pram whilst I then wash off and get dressed. But we've done it twice now, and it's manageable. It does mean that DH doesn't get to share in the fun.
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Hi girls :D
Thought I would join you in here! I'm CheezelMonster, I am currently very early pregnant and due mid December. I have an almost 20 month old son named Peter. I had a very long and drawn out m/c in January after TTC for 5 months. This time we got pregnant at our first attempt which was a surprise!
Truthfully, I am not 100% sure we're ready for another baby. We were kinda hoping AF would take her time coming back and by the time she returned we'd be feeling differently. But I guess after you experience a loss you might never feel ready :dunno: It's hard to put it into words. Did anyone else feel the same? I still cry often when I'm alone. I should've had my 19 week scan and be preparing for my new son or daughter.
But despite all this we are very happy to be expecting again. I feel very different to my last pregnancy, had symptoms very early and just kinda knew. So we're feeling very positive about this. I'm wondering if I should have a dating scan just to check on the little bub. I'm hoping to have HCG levels done too. Last time I didn't, so when I felt things weren't right I had nothing to compare.
Anyway, that's me! I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you and sharing this journey with you too.
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CheezelMonster - Welcome! Congratulations on your glorious, but a little unexpected bfp! Welcome to your little bump too! I am sorry for your m/c and the heartache that you now have. Its ok to still cry, January wasn't that long ago my blossom... and this pregnancy even though different will also remind you of what could have been for your little angel. Peter looks very cute!
I would recommend getting an early scan - it helps for dating, but also in my experience gives some reassurance. If having hcg's will give you reassurance, then do them. For me, I've found that it didn't help that much. Well helped when I got them but then I worried about the next test and results. But then I read others getting their levels done and I feel jealous that I didn't.
Wising you a happy and healthy pregnancy and that come deceember you'll be holding your precious new bubba in your arms and having many sleepless nights.
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Morning ladies,
Welcome cheezelmonster....(you have just made me feel like eating cheezles now LOL) Im sorry for you're loss, its normal to be feeling the way you do after a loss and a new pregnancy. Theres lots of different hills you will climb after a mc and new pregnancy...but you will get there. I am now 25 weeks and cant believe it. it was tough but rewarding.......these girls are great for support......yeah get a dating scan early for sure, and for piece of mind....
Dory...swimmings great isnt it, but it was really hard for me because i would come from gym.....and then getting out the pool and then having to try and get dressed in front of everyone in the lockers and get DD 21/2 dressed and then getting cold etc and then i was always going out for lunch...so the whole thing would frustrate me.........i want to take her back tho...but dont want to do it while im pregnant LOL
Joeve...how are you, been thinking of you..hope all is well
Alish...oh i hope everything goes great at you're scan...i think that scan is the best one...wonder what you're having..so exciting..i just got BOY in my mind for you
Kellbell...thanks..he is having the operation on Friday...Im glad everything is ok with you're little boy..how you feeling about it all being so close?
ATM...mums making me have my bday tonight....but i just actually wanted to skip over the whole thing...dads more important than my stupid bday anyways and its not even a special one....but mum is insisting we still celebrate but we will do it tonight instead..ill do it for dad because because i dont want to upset him...he will worry....:redface:
Braxton hicks........dont remember having them with DD............my stomach has been going really tight lately, especially after news with dad...it doesnt hurt like a contraction......and its not going on and off it can actually last for a while.... so do you think thats braxton hicks or the baby in a different position??????
I was reading up on grief with being pregnant. Anyways it came with a man who accidently got into a car accident, hurt his wife and killed is unborn so i just happened to go into it......two people wrote on his post that he should be more concerned with his wife and why worry about an unborn fetus thats not alive and hasnt had a breath!!!!! that they couldnt understand why he would be so upset about a baby thats not even born yet etc........OMG...i nearly picked up my computer and rammed it through the window....i couldnt believe what these idiots said....i mean seriously...im still so angry about it i cant even get the words out...how can people be so insensitive and sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo oooooo ignorant........a life is a life whether in or out the body..it is still a baby.a growing baby....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr anyways i know thats my opinion......
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Hi ladies moving house so will be very ramdom popper inner have no internet so jumping on anyones and everyones when i get the chance hope to have ours up and running in a week or so.
Hope everyone is well.
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What is happening at the moment!!!! - RB has lost her 2 week old baby sophie im in shock i cant believe it :-(
I dont understand why innocent babies are taken. Its just horrible and cruel:cry::cry:
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Melster - I wanted to say Happy Birthday for yesterday... sweetie, I know your dad is important to you, but you are important to. It's important to do the small things when the world around you is changing.
Kell - oh dear.
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Tegam - Rockin baker has lost her new baby. She has aiden her triplets and little sophie was 2 weeks old. What is happening in BB at the moment so much sadness
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kellbell, i saw :(
Why??????????? and not in just why Sophie but why as in why does ANY parent have to experience this sort of pain??
I feel weak in admitting that BB is just a bit to upsetting at the moment :cry:
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Dory - thank you for the very warm welcome :hug: I forget that it really wasn't that long ago.
Melster - thank you :hug:
Ferral - hello, good luck with the move.
I'm feeling just so sad after reading of poor RockingBaker's loss, once again I am crying for a family I have never met. Like Tegam, I don't know if I'm strong enough to be on BB lately. When is it going to stop :(
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I agree i think i need to get off here for awhile its too much for me
Melster will be thinking of you and your family tommorow as your dad has his surgery xoxoxoxo
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kellbell; take care of yourself.
Melster: Will be thinking of you tomorrow and i know it will be hard but i want to wish you a happy birthday!
Ferrals4 hehe i love the 5 now! take care moving
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horrible news :( the more bad news i hear the more anxious i get..
melster best of luck for your dad tomorrow and happy birthday
i think im having a girl, i would love a boy first but ill be over the moon either way..
