Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ May/June/July 2011

Melster~ its very hard becosue this girl at dinner always makes a secne just get to attion and it bugs me. espeically after the baby been born. And the baby will look at her and i am so afarid of her copy her later on. But how do i deal with it i bite my touge but i dont know how much longer i can do it. Becouse we are staying with my bf family and she goes from one person to another until she gets her way and if she does not then she throws a fit just like a 5 year old would do and i was brought up way different. There mother has already taken my bf to court saying that he abuses his kids which i will say he does not and also for cs saying he was behind and he was not its so sad that it seems like this child is running my life.Sorry if i sound mean but it gets old after awhile

Just wanting to say I'm thinking of you t-hopes and can't wait to hear your news. Wishing you speedy recovery vibes xx

sneaking in to say good luck to thopes-can't wait to hear your news! xx

thinking of you today thopes!!!!!

Sending T-Hopes my best wishes.

Hi ladies!

Thanks so mush for all your supportive words! Im such an emotional wreck today! Crying just reading my good luck msgs! I cant believe today is my turn! I will be holding my baby this afternoon! I just cant get my head around it! Its doesnt feel real! Im so excited and so scared! I cried when we got into bed last night cause it was the last night i would go to sleep with this bub in my belly and then cried with happiness cause i get to meet my bub so soon! Gosh these hormones are crazy! I cant wait to see this little face i have been dreaming of for so long!

Bags are all re-packed and ready to go! We have to be at the hospital at 3pm for a 4.30pm caesar...

And cant remember who asked, but no we dont know the sex yet! So excited to find out... my guess is hmmmm.... i'll go for girl!?

PossumMagic is my piggy so will txt her as soon as we can!

Well I will sign off now, my pregnancy journey is almost finished and i have loved every second and im ready to begin my next chapter of being a mummy... wow!

oh gosh here come the tears again! :)

T-Hopes- Comgratulations..I haven't been in this thread very long but your post made me tear up a little bit :) You deserve it

AFM- I am just sitting around waiting and wondering. Tomorrow DF and I are supposed to elope..and I am so nervous he will get cold feet again. I am also worried about this new bub. It is so difficult not being able to share this with any family members or friends but I just wanted to keep this under wraps until 2nd trimester to be safe (unless I am showing obviously)

:leap: :leap: GO THOPES GO :leap: :leap:

oh good luck thopes....pitty it wasnt this morning so u didnt have all day to think about it....i really wish u all the best and give ur new little bub a big cuddle from me.....cant wait to hear.....i will be checing constantly later......

Jessica.......wow..congratulations for tomorrow the..hopefully he wont get cold feet then...keep us posted and let us know if u need to chat

angelfish.......oh no believe me i am one that defiantly.....defiantly understands........its really hard to understand unless ur actually in these situations with these kids ands ex's......people tend to have really strong opinions about it...but unless u have to live day to day with it it can be a completely different story......i get judged all the time by what i say and do with the skids......but unless its them who have been raising these 4 skids for seven yrs and putting up with a pyscotic trouble making ex then really they need to be more understanding....its very hard raising children that are not ur own....and then dealing with hubbys views on top...its a very tricky situation

pm and alish....thanks....yes it is a very complicated..long winded..messy situation.........dont think anyone can really help me..guess i just gotta work it out for myself

atm....i didnt get outa bed yesterday and having trouble today....with the weather...and me being tired and body tired i just cant be bothered....guess its getting later in the pregnancy now....betta get the present for hospital for dd and the baby to give each other so its one thing less to think about

Oh my - i cant stop sweating!!! How long can this day go for??! Leaving home in 45mins to drop my dogs at my mum and dads then straight to the hosp!

Oh gosh im gunna go thru a can of Rexona today!

ANd im so thirsty!!

Breath Breath Breath! OUCH - BH!

For those of you who remember murrycod she popped onto BB last night did anyone get a PM from her she didnt post i am sooooo worried about her i emailed her again and am hopeing for some sort of response i dont even know if her daughter was born ok i got nothing after an email at 37 weeks from her and that was 5 months ago.

Murrycod please let us know you are ok!!!!

Popping in to say i hope everything goes smoothly for you today T-Hopes :D

Not much happening here, got our 20wk u/s booked in for this afternoon i'm so excited to see Bambi again.

T-Hopes yeap just keep breathing. Not much longer now. What a brilliant day it is today. Your going to meet your baby. I'm so excited for you both. I'm still going to guess boy but we do have alot of girls in here.

Ferrals I haven't heard from Murraycod since she found out her bubba was a little girl. I too have been worried and pray everything went well.

stalking.....thopes

T-hopes, I bet you're loving newborn cuddles about now! So excited for you :D waiting for your official news!!

:happyforyou: It's a BOY!

Congratulations T-Hopes and family on the safe arrival of baby Noah.

7lb15oz at 4.57pm.

Mr T-Hopes says: Mum and bub both doing beautifully! Little Noah has even had his first feed. Awwwww!

Hooray! :clap:

Sorry to keep you guys in suspense but i only got the sms a few minutes ago myself! I've been sweating all day cos i wanted to post as soon as i got the news but wasn't sure if i could do it at work. But it only came this evening. So happy for T-hopes. Love the name too!

Enjoy your cuddles T-Hopes! Well done! And congratus to all your family!

i thought id check one more time before bed...

congratulations mr and thopes........im glad everything went well...hope ur kidneys are doing ok....rest up and take it easy...

Thopes - Congratulations!!! I am glad everything went smoothly and you are both doing fine. Rest up while you can, bub will keep you pretty occupied for a while now.