Might I just add.......................................
SERENITY NOW!!!!!
I made it. I did it! I did it without losing my sanity.
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Might I just add.......................................
SERENITY NOW!!!!!
I made it. I did it! I did it without losing my sanity.
YAY Forshelby! You did good :) Now enjoy the quiet!
Forshelby :hide: You can come out now from your hiding place!! Your free!! Yahooo....!
Ladies,
I am having a mental breakdown, yesterday DH got all the court paperwork and in it is a quote for $7500 for the drunk d#ckhead two front teeth that suposedly will need root canal therapy and capping if the pulp of the teeth die WTF!!!!! if DH loses the case OMG! this is just getting worse i broke down and burst into tears at work last night and txt DH and went off HOW COULD YOU GET US INTO THIS SITUATION! i know he didnt mean it and the drunk assulted him first and DH was just protecting himself but it has all backfired.
DH has to apply for hardship to access his super to help pay for the lawyer and help us move house and pay bills.
If he doesnt get it we are f#cked we now cant even afford to pay for a car seat if i were not pregnant i could work more but i just cant risk it with this placenta.
Sorry to rant i am going to have a few days off work and use some sick leave.
Oh Ferrals - what a f#cked up situation! Not what you guys need at all and especially right b4 Christmas!! Good idea to have a few days off! Wish i had some good advice for you but i cant even begin to imagine! Gosh i hope 2011 is a better yr for you guys! xx
Ferrals..we were in a simlar situation...well legal stuff anyways and dr bills etc....boy i know exactly how you must feel right now. Its so hard when you have no control over a situation and things are going pear shape and theres not much you can do about it....wish there was something i could say to make you feel better...you need to just concentrate on you're bub and pray and HOPE things will work out....we ended up going for hardship as well and hubby got it, so hopefully you will too and hopefully the courts will work out that this guy is lying and you're partner was defending him self...hopefully you're lawyer is really good...!!!!!
Worst case senerio maybe you could borrow/rent/buy a second hand car seat and clean it...just until you can afford you're own...
Nah you cant risk the baby...you need to look after yourself and just pray things will work out in the end
ATM...were breaking up today and have a lunch at work...so i will let uno how my scan goes tomorrow..its in the arvo...............im :pray:
Kit - It was an epic battle of wills..... soooooo glad I won't be doing that again for a while.
T-hopes - I said the same thing this morning. I'm free!!!! No babysitting rotten kids today!
Ferrals - Awww hun it's been so hard for you lately. :hug: I think a few days off are just what you need right now. I hope this whole thing is over quickly and I hope even more that your DH wins the case!
Melster - Best of luck for tomorrow's scan!
AFM - Nothing exciting to report here, enjoying a peaceful day on my own and loving it. I had a hospital appointment this morning and was lucky to actually be seen on time, so then went to try and get my sister's xmas present. Of course the salesman was rude, and ignored me for a good 10 minutes. There was nobody else in the store and I tried to get his attention a couple of times. Then as I turned to walk out of the store he went to greet me and I just said TOO LATE, BUDDY and walked out. LOL, bit of pg rage there, I think. So, I'm still no closer to finishing the shopping.... but whatever. Today is my day and I desperately need to rest and recover after my extreme babysitting challenge. :)
YAY for 15weeks and double yay for the maternity jeans!:
YAY for the contract! Thats great news, now a fantastic scan tomorrow and you can have the best xmas ever!:
:clap: Well done!:
Holy cow, i can understand your rant to DH, as i am sure he can too. You are being very good about all of this and you are allowed a moment every now and then! Hope that you can access that super, i didnt even know you can do that! Im sure we can come up with a baby sit for you if need be! Calm calm calm ferrals, you and the baby are much too important for this $hit at the moment!:
AFM: New car is great, thank you ladies! Its huge and i havent given it a go parking but driving was nice. We have gone from petrol to desel so just had to get my head around all that! Really dont have the brain power at the moment and the kids are so excited that are yelling out about a million things at once. DH can drive for the minute :rofl:
Car seat is in but i dont think baby is ever going to come. How unfair that my 4th is planning on being the one i cook the longest, when my body is at its worse. But i am glad the baby is happy in there, hopefully putting on some much needed weight.
Oh who asked? Its a Hyundai I-MAX.
Sorry for my rant, just sore and over it today!
Oh im so bored.... 2nd last day of work and Im and pulling my hair out with boredom!!:wall:
Im the only person in the entire complex seriously! The phone has rang twice! Why the heck do i need to be here!?!?! :wall: Get me outta here.... 2.5hrs to go!! Im going nuts ppl!!!! :angry::juggle: Grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr! I have so much to do b4 Christmas and im a prisoner to this joint! Grrrr!
:rofl: Thopes!! I can hear the echo from here!
hahahha! I have googled everything possible, read the paper, done my work (most importantly :) ) read my mags, called my mum, called DH.... oh im going insane ................... maybe :think: i could have a little nap.......... :asleep: 2hr 12mins to go... tick tock tick tick
Like how you have googled, read the paper and THEN mention your work! :rofl:
Of course!! Priorities Tegam!! :D
did you make it or die of bordem?
ha ha T - hopes hope you didnt die of boredom :p
We seem extra busy hospitals should shut for a week i reckon at least the one i work at
Everyone dumps grannie for xmas and new years its a bit sad really !
12 weeks left of work YAH
I cant wait for xmas morning so my Ella can unwrap her presents so exciting :D
I survived ladies! Yahoo! Just gotta get thru 3hrs tomoz and im done till the 10th Jan! Whhooooo!
xx
woo hoo sounds great!
Hello Ladies,
I know a bunch of you from other threads... or the last time i was here :shakehead:
Praying i get to stay much much longer this time... till full term actually!
Got a BFP yesterday. My hands were shaking so badly it took me four goes to get the POAS packet open! So scared to see a BFP and and having another bad experience. But now i've had a day to think about it i'm feeling more excited (still scared but excited too. Also don't really believe it).
I'm 4.5wks pg. Already seen my OB because he told me to come in as soon as I got another BFP this time so that we can try medication to make bubba stick this time. I was already on aspirin while TTC. Now I'm on Clexane. Did my first injection tonight...GULP! I sat there for 5 mins feeling a bit dizzy with the needle pointed at my belly and thinking OMG I can't do this! But i did! So proud of myself. Only like 32 more weeks of daily needles to go!!!
Sorry, i'm babbling i know. it's all a bit overwhelming.
Belly rubs to all,
possum magic
Hi Girls sorry i havent been around lately. Just been feeling a bit quiet. Slowly getting used to the idea of not having our little girl around... im at the stage where i cant think about her tho or look at photos cos i will still just start crying.. i havent cried since we picked up her ashes on monday and i had to read her cremation certificate.. i also had a good old sniff of her collar.. it still smelt like her :( but yes i think this is my best coping mechanism for now.. blocking it all out.
Its weird.. i always thought going thru my m/c wld be the hardest thing i have ever been thru, but this definitely is by far.. is that wrong??
So many ppl have been saying that i wld be finding this loss extra hard because im pg and hormonal but why had i been feeling great up until that awful afternoon?! Maybe being hormonal multiplies what ur feeling... who knows... i just know i miss my little girl so much!!
Anyway other then all that i am doing really good! Except for the fact that i am getting BH's like every 15 mins.. its starting to worry me a bit.. even though everyone has said its normal.. including the midwife at hospital appointment yesterday, i just dont think it shld be happening this frequently! I can just be sitting here doing nothing and im still getting them all the time. Baby is always moving tho and ultrasound i had the other day was perfect so i guess everything is ok. Just as long as this isnt a sign that im going to go into labour prematurely!
While i remember heres my facebook link so u can check out a couple of my u/s pics!!
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?ai...2&id=622993252
I cant wait to add my next tummy shots.. im sure my tummy has doubled since the 20 week pics. People are actually noticing that im pregnant now.. finally im not just feeling like i have a pot belly! Altho im still getting ppl going 'what?! ur 5 and a half months pregnant.. gosh ur small!' But like u have all said u just cant win.. ur always going to be too big or too small..
I cant fit into any of my old pants anymore which is very exciting.. one of dhs cousins gave me lots of maternity pants last pg so i busted them out a couple nites ago.. i love em! So comfy!
Anyway enough about me! Onto some persies!
T-hopes- Woohoo for 15 weeks!!! When will u be going for ur morph scan? Closer to 18 weeks or will u try and hold out til the 20 wk mark?? Yay for ur upcoming holidays! :)
Ferrals- Oh my god thats terrible.. can things get any harder?! I really hope u both get the good luck u deserve. A few days off work will definitely be good for u, enjoy ur time off. Is ur bubba still a little disco queen and moving around heaps?? :)
Forshelby- Grrrr at the annoying kids! well kid i shld say! How frustrating! Theres no more babysitting plans for the near future i hope?! Can u tell ur friend what a little mongrel her son is being?? I think i wld have to make little comments here and there about his behaviour! Hey and what did u need to get more bt's for?? Anything i will have to get as well?? I think this is the longest i havent had to do one for a couple years.. im starting to miss it! haha.
Melster- Oh i cant wait til u have ur scan tomoro and see that everything is perfect! Will u be getting the nuchal trans. at 12 weeks as well or will this be it til the morph scan?
Tegam- Woohoo for the new car!!! I honestly cant believe ur baby is taking so long to come out!! Have u noticed ur tummy getting bigger over the last month?? Are u feeling huge or still quite small?
Kell- That is so sad and awful that oldies are getting dumped over xmas :( very lucky that theres caring ppl like urself out there to help them thru :)
Christmas morning wld be very exciting when u have a child! I cant wait til next xmas.. this year is going to be quite dull i think for us!
Kit- OMG watch that ticker go!!! Wowee!
I cant go back any further ladies so im so sorry if i have missed u! Hello to everyone tho!!!
xxx
oh Possum CONGRATULATIONS!!!! WOOHOO!! Am so happy for u!!! :)
Tegam - woot woot - NEW CAR.... and 37 weeks! After all that fuss about coming early.... stay snug little bubba... just for a week, so mumma can have a preggy christmas! I am loving the sound of the new car. Most importantly - what colour?
Melster - GL tomorrow with your scan.
Reet - grief is hard. Previous grief with your m/c and your current preg hormones don't make it any easier. It's not wrong to grieve your precious Nala. She was your darling little fur kid and you love her. Grieve as you need to. Nala deserves it. I ALWAYS have grieved my pets......that is so sweet that you had her cremated. Our cat who died when we were overseas was buried in our yard by my aunt and she made a little memorial garden. So sweet of her to do that. Maybe you can also do a memorial for your Nala? ( hope I have spelt her name correctly). Oh and I LOVE the u/s pics. YAY little one.
Kit - grrr little Tiger is going so well!
Ferrals - I know it's hard to see the sunshine when all you see is the gloomy clouds - but you are an amazing mother and woman and you will make it through. S'ok to be angry and frustrated and scared.... legal stuff is hard because it's confusing and I think it feels like you are just being tumbled around. I reckon you can hire a capsule - the ambo's do it for 6 months. Might not be what you'd hoped for, but at least bubs will be safe.
POSSUMS - WELCOME sweet girl and CONGRATULATIONS on your BFP..... how many tests have you done now? And well done on that first injection... it must be so hard ... but worth it.... clexane and asprin - do you have factor v leiden or another clotting disorder? I thought you mentioned something about progesterone pressaries? I am glad your obs saw you quickly... it bodes well for the level of care you are going to get from them. YAY for being pregnant..... any m/s yet? Sore bb? I know I could just read your blog, but I want you to be able to tell us all here!
Kell - enjoy the break from work....
T Hopes - glad you survived the boredom...... maybe you can be a crazy funster tomorrow and put sticky tape over the mouthpiece of a colleagues phone( so they can't be heard when they are speaking) or bubble wrap on the floor under their chair ( so when they roll the chair it pops and gives them a fright).....
Forshelby - enjoy the pregnancy rage... but I would call it just being assertive. In these tough economic times, the sales assistant should realise one very basic point - you are choosing to spend your hard earned money in their store, so they should treat you with respect or at least be courteous. I honestly think that there are too many people, shop assistants included who are just so damn inconsiderate of pregnant women and mothers with newborns... and I presume it's the same once the kiddies are toddlers. So get practising, it doesn't get any better. Although having said that, a guy at Bunnings really went out of his way to help me the other day ( I was trying to buy a 3 piece outdoor setting with HB in the sling... a bit too adventurous). I must put in a good word for him.
Audax - how true - too precious by far. With that beautiful thought I am off to bed.
Dory i cant believe HB is 3months old, how unfair is that :( What she like as a 3 month old??? I know 37weeks, its hard to keep saying no to induction...3 times now i have been brave, another appointment tomorrow at midday......:p can i be brave again.... My hips are so sore :rofl: Oh and the car is white, very boring, but DH said its too easy for me to scratch any other colour (and he is right)
Reet: Oh reet deal with it anyway you need! My belly is still small to strangers but my mum now says its the biggest she has seen me in 4 pregnancies... I feel bloody huge but really its not that big. People get a shock when i say im almost 38weeks!
Possum!! :leap: WOW thats great hun! Lets hope the needles get a little easier for you!
Thopes: 3hrs.......that shouldnt take long.....:rofl:
AFM: Nieces 1st bday today. We are having the party here as my sister is up from NSW. This is the only day i have been told i am not allowed to have the baby on....so 12.01am tonight im back on baby wishing, but until then im making a russian doll cake!! Illl let you know how i go!
Reet sending you mass's of (((hugs))) I hope time heals alot of your pain loosing your little girl. Its been 18months since we lost Penny in an accident (she was 5yrs old) and I still look at photos with tears in my eyes. Don't worry about others saying your small. It really means nothing. I should send a picture of me through at 24weeks as I am tiny also and definately don't look 5.5months. I'd say at a guess 12weeks lol. Oh well I know I could end up having the biggest baby of the lot despite my tiny tummy.
I'm not around much currently going to H and back with another issue unrelated to pregnancy.
T-Hopes yeah for finishing up work for Christmas.
possum magic CONGRATULATIONS. I'm so pleased for you. I think we first met when we both lost our bubs in 09. Sending you a truck load of sticky vibes and I'll be praying its third time lucky for you. How much clexane are you taking? I hate clexane. Not that I've taken it myself but all our ladies who have had c/s are on clexane and I just cringe at the thought of giving it even after 7yrs. I feel so mean. First one down that has to be the hardest and there only going to get easier.
Tegam so close now. Hope your little one chooses its own birthday in a timely fashion so you don't have to continue to disagree over the whole induction thing.
Thanks Mildez: Hope your hosipital appointment is quick and smooth!
Hey ladies,
I feel a lot better today DH and i went out yesterday and looked at hireing a capsule for 6 months and it will only cost $80 and we have laybyed an awesome carseat that is from 6 months to 7 years and the man at the fitting station said we can take as long as we need to pay it off so we will just put $10 a week on it.
As our car is only 2 years old it fits no problem.
DH faxed in the hardship paperwork i am just praying they accept it and we can have a little bit of solice until march.
And i am so thankful that i did the kids xmass presents before DH lost his job.
So lets hope things go up from here.
Reet-I feel your pain i would be heartbroken if i lost one of my fur babies.
I have been having heaps of really strong BH i just try and change position and get comfortable until they settle.
And little miss has still been moving a lot i am a little concerned that my belly hasnt grown much i am hopeing she is growing ok in there i am really uncomfortable so maybe she is just really low and hiding like everyone keeps telling me
By the way i love the bubs pic in your ticker covering its eyes so sweet.
Possum magic-i have been stalking the other threads and saw you post when you got your BFP it is great news and i look forward to following your journey.
Tegam-ooooh so close now and here we thought you would go early.
I am very small also i am 26 weeks and people keep commenting on how tiny i am i still fit into all my normal clothes just cant do up the zippers my work shirt still fits and when i tell people how far i am they all remark on my size.
But i am bigger with this bub then the others although still small and i am heavier with this bub to at 26 weeks with my 3 boys i was around 64kgs and 70kgs when they were born and this bub i have hit the 67kgs already and still have until 37-38 weeks so 11-12 weeks left.
Dory-Hannah is so cute i cant believe its been 3 months already how time flys.
Anyway i have to go have breakfast i am starving.
Dory- Gorgeous pic of little Hannah! :)
We chose to get Nala girl cremated because she died at the vet.. i didnt want either of us going thru the pain of having to pick her up to bring her home to bury, she wldnt have looked the same as we remembered, i also didnt want our other girl heidi to have to see her :( We are going to make a vege patch and eventually sprinkle her ashes thru it.. she loved veges!! She would eat anything! Watermelon, carrot, potato peels, whole bananas.. she was a little pig!
Mildez- oh gosh 5 yrs down the track and u still get teary over ur penny.. :( last week i was able to look at her pics.. they would make me cry but i felt like i wanted to look at her.. i was all ready to go and get pics of us with her developed and framed.. thank goodness i didnt rush straight out and do it tho because this week theres no way i can look at her, it gives me a sick feeling to my stomach if i get a glance of her. Grief is such a hard thing to deal with.
I hope whatever problem u have isnt too bad and u can get it sorted soon, glad its not pregnancy related tho.
Oh and post a pic of ur little tummy!!! :)
Ferrals- Im so glad that things are looking up for u. Thats great that u can get a carseat from 6 mths to 7 yrs.. im definitely going to look into one of those!
Thank goodness im not the only one getting BH's all the time.. i was ready to ring my midwife today and tell her that im sure its not normal.. even tho i know theres nothing that can be done!
Tegam- Why are they pushing so much for u to be induced if baby is happy and healthy where it is??? Because of the low fluid??
I hope u can get thru today! Do u feel as tho baby might come at anytime?? Is ur body sending any signals??
AFM- Beautiful rainy overcaste day today.. i love this weather!! Theres a small chance of a cyclone developing on christmas day.. i like a bit of excitement.. as long as its not too much!!
Tegam - Yay for the new car! Can't believe you're almost 38 weeks already.......... your baby isn't far away now!
T-Hopes - hehehe, I don't know which is worse..... working in my old position where xmas time means customers go MENTAL and the phones go crazy right up until closing time on xmas eve.... or if I'd rather be bored out of my mind. Tough choice! So glad you made it though, I was worried your 'nap' might have stretched into a sleepover... haha.
Kellie - Aww that is so sad that people would leave their old relatives at the hospital for xmas........ how horrible! My Gran was in a nursing home for the last few years and we used to have them 'deliver' her to the party in a big maxi taxi thing with a wheelchair lift. She loved it and would sit at the head of the table with her little paper crown on... lol.
Possum - :dance: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! How's that for a christmas present?! It's so great to see you in here. Good to hear you're excited and feeling positive, and well done on giving yourself the needle. I personally hate needles so I feel your pain! Feel free to babble all you want, hun....... this is exciting stuff!! Have you told your DH yet? Or are you going to surprise him on xmas day with your peed on stick? LOL, romantic.
Reet - Definitely being pg would amplify your grief, i don't doubt that for a second. When I'd just gotten my BFP and my Grandma died, we were at the nursing home clearing out some of her stuff and I just burst into tears. And I am generally not a cryer. Not in public anyway lol. Lucky for me my aunty and mum joined me and we all had a big cry together. :hug: If blocking it out for now helps you cope, then do it. I just want you to have a nice xmas and new year and to feel better. :) Hooray for busting out the maternity pants (that is sooooo something I would say by the way 'busted out' lol) and don't worry about the BH. Ikwym about being too big or too small.. I'm getting the 'OMG YOU'RE HUGE' comments. I thought it would bother me more than it does but I really don't care. I love my big belly and the way people look at it. This is such a special time and I know I'll look back on these 9 months for the rest of my life as some of the happiest. To answer your question, the BT's were for my glucose tolerance test. (to see if I have gestational diabetes). I imagine that test is standard so you'll probably have to have it as well. And don't you worry, I told my friend what a nightmare her eldest was being when she came to pick them up. She was soooo cranky with him. She felt really bad but I told her not to worry, that it was nothing I couldn't handle and that it was mostly just irritating. I was surprised to hear there was no punishment though... he just got yelled at. No wonder he was such a ratbag, he gets away with it all the time! Anyway, she's my bestie so I would still do it for her again, I'll just have a MUCH firmer hand with them next time. How she raises her kids is her business, and I'd do anything to help her out.
Dory - Lovely to hear from you again! I was actually thinking to myself 'is this guy ignoring me because I'm pg?' then told myself I was being silly. I seem to get that a lot lately, especially in clothing stores. Nobody greets me etc, it's like they're saying 'just leave we don't have anything in your size'. Meanwhile they DO, I just have to dig for it. Hmmm I wonder why it is that people are so ignorant of us mummies? Hooray for the guy at bunnings.... that's awesome. I find bunnings staff are generally really helpful. I should shop there more, lol. I'm loving the new pic of Hannah Bear, she looks so inquisitive! GORGEOUS. Mwah and Merry Xmas :)
Mildez - I hope you're doing okay. :hug:
Ferrals - So glad you're feeling better hun, FX the paperwork goes through no problems and your money issue will be sorted for now.
AFM - I'm spent from all that catching up... you girls have been busy busy busy! I'm supposed to be writing a shopping list for the rest of the stuff I need for xmas and I've only got chicken wings and bbq sauce on it. COME ON, FOCUS! lol. We picked up bubby's carseat last night and are getting it put in the car asap. It's a convertible one and starts out as a rear facing capsule, then turns into a regular seat. Can be used up to 18kg so that should last a fair while! Yay :) How exciting! It's all happening so fast, before I know it I'll be getting my labour bag ready. Actually I'd like to have it ready by 33 weeks just to be on the safe side. Call me paranoid, lol. Well, just in case I get too busy to pop back in here before the big day, Merry Christmas to all my lovely ladies and your families. And of course belly rubs!! XOXOXOXO
Well DH super company rang and they said DH needs to be on centerlink for 6 months before they will release any money:shakehead: 6 months we will be in dire need well and truely before then we are going to ring APRA tomorrow so see what we can do surely they can do something.
Forshelby-I have my hospital bag packed already just in case this placenta puts me in hospital early and i even have bubs bag done right down to the surgical alcohol for her belly cord stump i just need to wash her little nighties ect i will do that at 30 weeks.
Ferrals - Keep trying, hopefully APRA can do something for you. I hope you don't end up in hospital early, although maybe the rest would be good. :hug:
just popping in to let uno how scan went.......
i couldnt look so i closed my eyes and just waited....and when he laughed i opened my eyes...there was peanut 35mm...but we think baby was sleeping although it moved its legs a bit. and there was a heart beat...........i was so shocked to not see a black whole....and too see how much it had grown......i was so nervous and was the last one to go in at the drs and it was killer......i got my cd as well so i am going to watch it soon as i was in shock when he was doing it. had a blood test and he gave me the form for the 8th jan to have the scan..............i think i will be alright now and wont be so worried. i have gone way over were the last baby passed and getting closer to second tri and i have seen a baby..............so hopefully i can be a bit more positive now......
Yay Melster! Great news!
I'm just letting u all know that my scan went well too!
Nice heartbeat and baby measures to my original dates which is great!
Yay xx
Yah Stoked and Melster so happy for you both - sounds like everybodys little bubbas are doing great!
Sorry about the financial worries Ferrals must be very stressful wont be long though and your little girl will be in your arms. Did i read before your calling her Ella - gotta love that name since we have an Ella too :D
yah Possum to see you in here!
Reet your baby is so cute in your ticker! Sorry your having a hard time after the loss of your furbaby its not fair
ForShelby how cute the carseat is going in it makes it really real i think too see it in the car. we have moved ellas seat over from the middle and will put bubs in soon that will be scary to think ill have two kids soon ekkkkkk i cant wait for him but hoping ill cope with two kids okay as well.
Dory Hannah is sooooooooo cute i cant believe she is 3 months already!
I know its really sad people dont want there relatives around at xmas :-(
alot dont even get a visitor. It happens every year like clock work the week before xmas they start dropping them into hospital for a week or so. i loved my nannas so much and id give anything for them to be here at xmas
My little man was really quiet today hope he gets more active tommorow or ill be worried :cry:
sorry to everyone i have missed think ill go and have a cold drink and poke this baby awake so i dont stress all night
Thanks so much ladies for the welcome. Looking forward to catching up on the thread and doing some persies: I won't tonight. Bit of a blue with DH and feeling tired and teary: It's been a big week. But i'm on holiday now for two weeks so the rest should do me good.
He has gone completly bananas lol glad hes okay in there though - now ive stirred him up how do i sleep :-)
Kellbell~ when Honor gets quiet i will do the samething and then i am getting poked and kicked but it makes me so happy.
Possum ~ congrats i am sooo happy for you.
Stoked and Melster~ congrats on the good scans.
Ferrals~ i am so sorry about the finacial worries but what i have learned is to keep your head up things will work out. I hope that you can get some help asap.
Sorry if i missed anyone but just wanted to say i hope that everyone has a great christams.
Forshelby-From what i have read online they wont release any money unless we are going to lose a house, die or are seriously ill careing for someone ill and cant work or unemployed for 6mths +.
I will have to go see my dad i think but i will wait until the end of jan because we need to move in feb and we will try to sell DH motorbike in the mean time.
Melster & Stoked-well done on the great scan results i hope that helps you both relax a bit.
Kellbell-Yes we have named our girl Ella both DH and i are settled on that name and we cant seem to find anything that we think would suit our little girl her full name will be Ella Jean Christine two middle names after both her nans.
Angelfish-thanks i hope so.
AFM-I have been up since 6 little miss decided to go balistic and rap dance on my bladder and my fur babies were sooking at the bedroom door to be fed so i am now wide awake.
Oh ferrals: Hope you can sell the bike and get some help off your dad. Yay for miss E having a rap dance!
Stoked and Melstar: Thats great news, always love to hear about a good scan!
Angel: Have a great xmas too!
Kellbell: yay on the disco dancing! Its always stressful when they are quiet, but then once they are born the last thing we want is them awake all day and night hehe!
AFM: MW appointment at 12noon! Hoping for a S&S. Belly dropped yesterdaym must be 3inches lower then wednesday, which makes for a very sore tegam and a very ugly belly. My mum was a MW as she just walked in the house and laughed at me and said "oh dear me thats deffinitly a belly of someones having their 4th, thats more than dropped"!
Will let you all know how it goes...oh and
38weeks today!
I cant beleive that i am going to be 34 weeks on saturda. It all still feels like a dream
ferrals~ i hope that you can get help from your dad and sell the bike.
Melster - YAY! Great to hear bubby is snuggled in safe and sound :) Now you can relax and enjoy your Christmas.
Stoked - Awesome news! :) I bet you're feeling a lot better having seen a hb.
Kellie - I think you'll do just fine with 2 kids. Remember, you have two arms, so 2 kids is just perfect. You can restrain them both at the same time, lol. :) Try not to worry about bubs being a bit quiet, I find mine has up and down days too..... good to see a cold drink did the trick hehe. I find my little one gets a bit exciteable when I'm trying to sleep as well. I hope this isn't going to continue when he/she is out!
Possum - Aww I hope you and DH can kiss and make up soon. Enjoy your 2 weeks off!
Angelfish - Merry xmas :)
Ferrals - Ugh, they sure don't make it easy for you do they! Hopefully your dad can be the safety net you need right now. :hug:
Tegam - Hooray for your belly dropping..... it can't be long now! Good luck for your appointment. Does an s&s hurt?? Just curious.
AFM - Feeling kind of tired and just blah in general today. I'm looking forward to seeing DP's family tomorrow and enjoying an xmas feast. Can't wait to see the look on our little nieces face when she opens her presents. I think that's the best part! I just know I'm going to be exhausted though after all the socialising..... I hope DP doesn't want to stay super late as it's at least a 40min drive home.