The past three times DH and i have DTD my legs, bum and vagina have been really really sore and ache a lot. I just got a hand mirror to see what it happening, and i am extremely swollen and very.. vainy (like the vains look HUGE ) I looks very unattractive... to the point where i dont want DH to see it like that.

Is this normal?? I never had it with DD.. its kinda scary