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    Jul 2009
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    coping with your partner HELP

    My fiance and i are having problems!!!
    we are having a fight

    he doesnt understand how my body is feeling or my emotions etc but he says he does and that by me saying he doeasnt makes him feel stupid and not involved

    how do i make him feel involved when im the one going through all these changes and feeling and hormaones and emotions??
    he doesnt have sore boobs and sore hips and sickness and bloating heartburn etc etc the list could go on

    he still drinks alcohol and coffee and eat what he wants i dont and cant

    i dont knw what to do im at work crying and dont want to talk to him coz im feeling so upset he thinks i think he is stupid and dont involve him but i do, i tell him how im feeling the changes he says 'i know '

    i read him things from all my [preg books, i tell him stuff all the time im always talking to him

    what do i do im so upset i feel so so alone like i dont even have him to talk to like i should just shut up and not tell him anything

    and dont get me started on the fear i have on losing bubs im 17 weeks and its been a hard one, cramps pain iv had worries i would miss carry , and something would eb wrong

    its my first baby cant i be scared and worried ? but im alwaysd being told dont worry everything is fine fine fine fine lol..wedont know that
    Last edited by CinderToriella; September 21st, 2009 at 10:37 AM.