Hi Ladies
It's been a loooong time since I've been on here cos we've had a bit of a rough time of it from the beginning. But now I'm feeling confident enough to start looking on here again, and as ever,it's been a wealth of helpful info.
However.... due to our uncertainty about how things were going to work out for us we haven't had any antenatal appointments or sorted out the hospital or anything. Now I'm starting to feel a bit stressed!!
I'm 17 weeks now and have had to go through a lot of tests and a LOT of waiting for results so have had a couple of scans via the city hospital (Brissie) and have got my 19 week scan booked with them. But I live near another hospital (Redlands, for anyone who's from this way)and have heard great things about them and would like to have the bub there I think. But I'm also confused about what to do because this is my first, and I'm from the uk where things run differently anyway!!! PLEASE HELP, MY MUSHY BRAIN CAN'T COPE!!

The gp i saw while all this was going on said about the different types of care available but at that point I was struggling to digest what he was talking about and now I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Do I need a referral from him to book at the hospital for antenatal care? Or do I have to keep seeing him (which I'm not keen on cos he didn't fill me with confidence)? Or do I book the hospital myself?? AAAARRRAGGHHHHH!!!!!!!!
I'm sure it's all so simple but I've been in denial about this pregnancy for 17 weeks now because we were too scared to pin our hopes on it and now it feels like we've only just found out and have so much less time to get things sorted out!
Sorry, I've no-one else to ask!!!!!!!

Thanks
Lol xx